Well, unsurprisingly perhaps, 90% of men and 60% of women who voted claimed to look at porn at least 2-3 times a week (with 72% of men and 37% of women admitting to daily viewing). That didn't leave a whole lot of votes left for the other options, the most noteworthy being that 19% of women claim to view porn only rarely.
Quite what the 6% of men and women who claim to NEVER look at porn are doing on a site like this is anyone's guess. I am slightly confused by that result.... still, never mind.
If you do like looking at porn, and in particular would like to see a nice clip of some guy getting his balls punched as he cums then check out the 'Video' tab and click the first link. It's scary but, it kinda turns me on too...
Friday 30 September 2011
Thursday 29 September 2011
10 for September...
This evening I was allowed to worship Mistress R's beautiful pussy and gave her her tenth (and probably last) orgasm of September 2011. This means she has now had 58 orgasms to my 13, which is a pretty impressive ratio of 4.46 to 1 (it's definitely creeping up!). Cumming inside Mistress R seems so long ago, well it is over two months since I have been allowed to cum inside her... I wish she would let me, I so want to clean her pussy with my tongue afterwards... oh well, I knew what I was getting myself into and I'll just have to wait until she decides that's what she wants to happen.
Mistress R did also give me some wonderful teasing this evening, it was almost like I haven't been hard this week, and consequently I was very hard when she started rubbing my cock with her foot while I was warming her up to go down on her. I wonder if my cock is starting to 'learn' that getting hard without her to play with it is a waste of time? Wow, there's a notion: 'intelligent cock'! Maybe Apple might want to buy that off me? Maybe not.
Anyway...
You may have noticed that I haven't been posting quite as much lately, which is largely because I've been working far too hard and not had enough time to post as much as normal. Needless to say I haven't got around to writing anything either... no big surprise there I guess. I'm toying with the idea of buying a laptop so that I can make the most of my time, but I also need to buy a treadmill this winter, so we'll have to see.
Maybe if I can sell enough stuff on eBay I might be able to get it together, I've got a couple of instruments I don't use anymore, they should bring in about £700 with a bit of luck.
Mistress R did also give me some wonderful teasing this evening, it was almost like I haven't been hard this week, and consequently I was very hard when she started rubbing my cock with her foot while I was warming her up to go down on her. I wonder if my cock is starting to 'learn' that getting hard without her to play with it is a waste of time? Wow, there's a notion: 'intelligent cock'! Maybe Apple might want to buy that off me? Maybe not.
Anyway...
You may have noticed that I haven't been posting quite as much lately, which is largely because I've been working far too hard and not had enough time to post as much as normal. Needless to say I haven't got around to writing anything either... no big surprise there I guess. I'm toying with the idea of buying a laptop so that I can make the most of my time, but I also need to buy a treadmill this winter, so we'll have to see.
Maybe if I can sell enough stuff on eBay I might be able to get it together, I've got a couple of instruments I don't use anymore, they should bring in about £700 with a bit of luck.
Tuesday 27 September 2011
The anal invader...
This thing is on it's way to me from America (courtesy of Eden Fantasys)... the reviews on their site are very good (quality issues aside - it's quite cheap for what it is) so we shall see how it is when it arrives!
Photos...
Mistress R seems to be well into the idea of taking some photos this weekend... which surprises me. Since she's talking about taking pictures of my nuts, maybe she'll allow some more revealing photos of herself too?
Monday 26 September 2011
If you don't ask, you don't know what you might get...
Our good friend Mr Harry Haversackers posted a comment yesterday asking if we could furnish him with a photo of Mistress R's nails. Well, I'm pleased to say that, like President Obama, yes we can! In fact here's two for you...
The answer is yes, they are real, in fact they used to be even longer!
Mistress R surprised me somewhat when I asked to take these photos, because she suggested taking the photo with her nails digging into my nuts! She seems quite taken with that idea, but we're a little short on time tonight and Mistress isn't feeling too good either, but check back at the weekend and you may get an eyeful!
I've added the original B&W versions to the 'Gallery' page.
Well, what do ya know...
70% of guys look at porn every day. Who knew? Hahaha... the other 30% must have busy lives.
Sunday 25 September 2011
REVIEW: Cock and Ball Device...
So the other week I got an email from Eden Fantasys providing me with another list of sex toys to choose from and I chose this:
...the 'Ballbuster Kit', or at least that's what I was expecting, so imagine my surprise when I opened the box and inside it was this:
The imaginatively named 'Cock and Ball device'!
Well, after some brief bemusement I checked my email and it turned out that I'd asked for the wrong thing... so not their fault at all. At first I was disappointed, but then I looked back at the photo of the Ballbuster Kit and aside from the one in the middle, the ball-buster kit is just a load of cock rings, which I've already got more than enough of, and I've already got the awesomely awesome Oxballs Cocksling, which is the BEST cock ring ever, bar none.
Anyway, so I got this out of it's bag and thought, 'this doesn't look very good...', but, I thought, these people have spent a small fortune sending this to you from America so you've got to give it a chance, and am I glad I did!
The first time I tried it on I wasn't massively impressed, if you have high riding balls like I do then the thing will pull forward, rather than pulling back. This gives the impression that your balls are two inches along your shaft and that there's only about two inches of cock sticking out of the leather ring... not a good look really.
I took it off and left it lying around for a few days until last night when I said to Mistress that we should try it since I have to write the review soon.
Just to back up a little here, last night I was permitted to go down on Mistress R once more and gave her another lovely hard orgasm, and best of all right from the start it felt right, and I knew it was going to be good. As I kissed her legs she used her toes to stroke my hard cock and then I moved up and over her to kiss her and she teased me by grabbing my cock and rubbing the tip against her pussy. Wonderful... but after a short time she let go and placed her hand on my chest and pushed my away and down (I love it when she does that) towards her pussy.
After I had made her cum I fitted the cock and ball device and straight away my right nut pulled out of the base ring, so annoying, so I decided to redo it on the next stud, much better, much tighter, no way was I pulling out of that. Then I pulled my cock through the front ring and lay down on the bed next to Mistress R.
Mistress R's first impression was not great, since as I said only about a third of my cock was sticking out the end of the ring... but soon enough she realised that if she used her other hand to pull the base ring back it forced another couple of inches of cock out for her to play with and pulled my balls really tight.
It felt fucking amazing, my cock was really hard, the kind of hard you can never get without a ring, veiny, tight and rock hard. And my balls were deep red and so taut that Mistress R asked me about three times if I needed to take it off because to her it looked so painful (it was mildly painful, but in the best kind of way!).
She continued working my cock, sucking and jerking it until she finally decided that she wanted to feel my rock hard cock inside her, and she wanted me on top too!
Last time we tried this I had the Oxballs Cocksling on and it was a nightmare trying to penetrate her without cumming (and don't forget at this point I was carrying two weeks of denial), but this time it was relatively easy to keep control, a lot easier than last time anyway, perhaps because Mistress R has been riding my cock a fair bit more lately so it wasn't quite such an overwhelming sensation... I don't know.
Anyway, she told me to get on my knees between her legs and put my cock inside her, which I did without hesitation, and soon my very overly-engorged cock was sliding inside her. Or at least some of it was, since I was worried about the studs on the leather so I could only use about 3". At the same time Mistress R was reaching under and using her nails to torture my balls as I slowly fucked her (she later claimed to just be trying to keep me under control since she was a little worried about the studs too, but I know she was sneakily torturing my balls with her long nails... and I fucking LOVED IT! Hahahahahahaha.).
After a couple of minutes she pushed me back and told me to lay down next to her again and then she started sucking her juices of my cock. Then she turned to me and asked me if I had anything to confess and I admitted to having touched my cock that afternoon, which got me a few nice slaps, a couple of which caught my balls (totally accidental I'm sure... I kind of wanted to ask her to slap my balls anyway, but I was a bit too scared, haha...). The slaps were very effective with my cock so tightly bound and I would have loved her to have given me more, or used the little cock-whip too, but in the end she decided that I should take the device off.
I don't think Mistress R has seen my cock and balls that tightly bound before and I think she was a little nervous about it, I tried to convince her that it felt great, but I'm not sure she was convinced. She said it looked like porn photo's she had seen where guys were being 'tortured' (yeah, and probably loving every second of it!).
So off it came, admittedly I was a tiny bit reluctant to remove it, but to be fair I had already had a nice lot of teasing and there's always a next time. My cock deflated as it always seems to whenever I remove a cock ring of any kind and I assumed that was the end of that, but Mistress R started stroking my cock again and soon had me hard once more. She knelt beside me on the bed and started stroking my cock hard. For the first time that evening I seriously started to think she might be about to let me cum, and as I looked at her pumping my cock hard she told me that she wanted me to cum for her. About a minute later I started to shoot and she pumped me hard until I was covered in two weeks worth of denied cum. Satisfied, but oh so ready to start again...
Okay, so getting back to the toy, it's very well made and the leather feels really nice, there's not too much to say about it's actual construction since it's little more that three strips of leather fixed together with studs. But it does feel like a high quality product, I've had things like this before that feel flimsy and cheap and this certainly doesn't feel like that at all. $20.99 might sound a little steep but I think it's worth it, because this is definitely the best quality leather cock harness I've used.
If it's a little too expensive for you Eden Fantasys have a whole range of cock and ball toys to choose from and I'm rather intrigued by the Anal Invader with Cock Cage myself, perhaps Kayla can sort that one out for me to trial next month?
So in the end the 'Cock and Ball Device' isn't the best for penetration, but I loved it and I can't wait to try it again and to feel my balls stretched and tight. Perhaps next time Mistress R will be a little less 'concerned' and a little more, umm, 'sadistic'.... here's hoping!
Saturday 24 September 2011
Wow...
So tomorrow I will fill you in on the evening I just had, where I got to test out my latest Eden Fantasys product...
New poll...
So my new poll is up, pretty self explanatory really... how often do you look at porn? Separate polls for ladies and gents too.
In hindsight perhaps I should have included an option for every six or seven minutes... (but 'k' can just vote 'Every day', hahaha).
NB: When I say 'porn' that doesn't necessarily have to be pictures or clips, it could just as easily be the written word.
In hindsight perhaps I should have included an option for every six or seven minutes... (but 'k' can just vote 'Every day', hahaha).
NB: When I say 'porn' that doesn't necessarily have to be pictures or clips, it could just as easily be the written word.
Writing...
As some of you may know, about five months ago (is it really that long) I started writing a novel for Femdom Cave. Well I've got about 1/3 of the way through, maybe a little more, and to be honest I haven't touched it for a month or two now, not only that but I haven't written any short stories either! This is very disappointing, but I am starting to think about getting my writing head on again and hopefully I will start again soon. I might try writing a couple of short stories to get myself warmed up before I go back to my novel....
Friday 23 September 2011
BOOK REVIEW: Haven of Obedience by Marina Anderson...
Despite this book focussing on Female submission, rather than Male submission I decided to give it a go anyway, and I'm glad I did. Marina Anderson's writing style is very readable and I really raced through this book. Sure it has no real depth, but it's a sex novel at the end of the day and there's plenty of that. Despite my own thoughts on the matter I'm not entirely sure that people who read books like this want an enormous amount of plot and character development, which makes me a little concerned about the ultimate fate of my own book (which is still firmly on the back-burner), since I think it has an inordinate amount of plot respective to the amount of actual 'action'. But I digress...
Don't get me wrong, Marina does imbue the characters with adequate texture and she does a fair job of keeping the uneasy relationship between the two main characters on the boil. But I do have one or two niggles...
'The Haven' of the title is a 'secret club' where people are invited to go to learn to be submissive. This includes men and women who are too aggressive in bed, like the heroine 'Natalie'. Of course she's somewhat reluctant to go, reluctant to learn and of course is ultimately broken by the hero 'Simon'...
There are a couple of scenes where guys are taught to endure denial and teasing, and I applaud the author for including those, but my one big beef is with the cop out that she uses when distinguishing between male and female learning techniques.
About half way through the book all the women at 'The Haven' are marched into a room and into a circle of chairs occupied by the male residents and 'forced' to engage in lesbian sex (which they are reluctant to do) under the pretence of educating the watching men about how to 'pleasure' a woman. All well and good I suppose, and I'm sure none of us chaps would be complaining about that.
So how do we think the women might learn about 'pleasuring' men? Might all the men be marched into the circle of women and forced to commit acts of felatio and Sodomy on each other? No. It's quietly brushed under the carpet and the women are said to have 'been shown video's educating them in the ways of male sexuality'.
I'm sorry but that's a cop out. I know the publisher probably would have baulked if she'd written a scene where all the guys wanked each other off, but you know.... what's sauce for the goose, etc, etc...
But aside from that I can't really think of too much to criticise. Of course it's all rather far fetched, and everyone has piercing eyes and toned physiques (yawn) but that aside it's an extremely enjoyable read. I will probably keep it too, it's a lot better than that other one I reviewed a while back (Lust Call) and certainly could be read again I think...
Results of the poll...
Okay so, if you want to see the full results of the poll then you can look in the 'Polls' tab, but here I will analyse it a little differently.
6% of you have had sex with more than 100 partners
8% of you have had sex with more than 50 partners
26% of you have had sex with more than 10 partners
74% of you have had sex with less than 10 people
52% of you have had sex with less than 5 people
20% of you have had only one partner
8% of you are still virgins
A new poll will be up just as soon as I can think of one!
6% of you have had sex with more than 100 partners
8% of you have had sex with more than 50 partners
26% of you have had sex with more than 10 partners
74% of you have had sex with less than 10 people
52% of you have had sex with less than 5 people
20% of you have had only one partner
8% of you are still virgins
A new poll will be up just as soon as I can think of one!
Wednesday 21 September 2011
Life imitating art...
Well, 'art's' a bit strong... but after I made that caption below I did indeed get to give Mistress R her 56th orgasm since April 1st, and very nice it was too! I didn't get to cum, but I did get to be inside her as she rode my cock for a fair while until she'd had enough. I'm glad to say that Mistress R seems to be taking penetration for herself rather than throwing me a bone, since she really seems to be enjoying it now that she is in control and she gets to decide when it begins and ends. Which is good news for me! So I'm at 11 days now, and I have a feeling this is going to be a long period of chastity, I certainly hope so.
Tuesday 20 September 2011
New video added...
464 Ruined Orgasms, well, frankly they're not all ruined, but there's plenty of ruined ones in there for you.... find the link on the 'Videos' page.
200 Plus....
When I constructed my new poll, I wondered how many options I would really need, and if it was necessary to go as high as 200+, it seems it was, since two of you claim to have had that many partners. I cannot really imagine having had over two hundred partners... having only had 2 myself, I can't imagine having had twenty, never mind ten times that many. On the other hand, a quick calculation shows that I've probably had sex of some kind with Mistress R over 2200 times, possibly more...
So unless you 200+ guys did it 11 times with each one, I'm still up on the deal, hahaha.
So unless you 200+ guys did it 11 times with each one, I'm still up on the deal, hahaha.
Monday 19 September 2011
Mistress R has her fun again...
Despite the both of us feeling rather tired, Mistress R decided that she wanted me to worship her pussy this evening and I'm not about to turn an opportunity like that down! The result was another pretty intense orgasm for Mistress R and about ten minutes of wonderful teasing for me. Mistress R spent most of the time sucking my rock-hard cock, occasionally using her tongue and teeth to stimulate the head and interspersing that with a few nice slaps too. No orgasm though, not that I expected one... now 55 plays 12, since April the 1st, and it's well over 2 months since I came inside her... God I would love to cum inside her and clean her with my tongue, but I can't even beg for it! Aaaaaaaaagh.
In other news, Eden Fantasys have delivered my latest review parcel, sadly what's inside it isn't what I chose from the list, so I don't know what's going on there... (on closer inspection it seems to have been my mistake!) I will review what they have sent me in due course.
Good to see the blog is picking up visitors, 2000+ for the last two days after a rather fallow period, it's going to be hitting 300,000 views in the next few days, not bad seeing as the blog hasn't even been going six months yet!
Sunday 18 September 2011
House of Edging - Level Two...
For anyone who is interested the sequel to House of Edging - Level Two is up now at Milovana. Due to some protest voting I have removed the entry code for level two, which is annoying and rather defeats the object, but hey ho. Check it out here....
HOUSE OF EDGING - LEVEL TWO
HOUSE OF EDGING - LEVEL TWO
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Saturday 17 September 2011
Femdom session produces new tagline for the blog...
Today was our monthly Femdom session, and it really was quite wonderful. Not only that, but it also inspired me to implement a new tagline for the blog, but more on that later...
We woke up late, finally getting to catch up on some much needed sleep, and decided on an 11:00am start. At the agreed time I was kneeling blindfolded in the bedroom, with my wrist and ankle straps and the Oxballs Cocksling in place. Mistress R came into the room and as usual she wanted to punish me for my infractions, only two this month so it was only half a dozen swats with the paddle and six fairly robust swipes with the cat... stingy but not painful as such.
Then she laid on the bed and had me worship her feet for a while (I love to do this and she knows it) playing with her pussy as I kissed and sucked her toes, instep and soles. This seemed to be over quicker than I was expecting and I was a little frustrated because I didn't seem to be able to slip into my submissive headspace, sometimes it just doesn't happen, and today was one of those days. It was still immensely enjoyable though, and my cock got very hard when she started talking about how long she might make me wait, the words 'much longer' predictably bringing the biggest 'throb'.
Then I was tied on my back and Mistress R started riding my face and, of course, my cock was now getting rather hard, especially with the Cocksling fitted! It seemed to fit perfectly this time, with none of the problems I had last time I used it, which was good. Soon, far sooner than anticipated Mistress R was lubing up my rock hard cock and teasing and rubbing it mercilessly before impaling herself on it... fuck yes, that felt sooooooooooooo good. She got off and back on a couple of times, telling me how she was using 'her' cock for 'her' pleasure, which is just what every chastity-sub wants to hear, isn't it? Fucking hot.
Then she got off and had me lick her pussy a little more and then she stood up and turned away from me so that I was looking up at her gorgeous pussy and ass, then said the most amazing thing. She said 'How bad do you want to cum right now?'. I didn't really know how to answer that and she followed it up with 'Enough to ask me to let you?'.
Truthfully, I wasn't even thinking about the rule that I'm not allowed to ask... I said 'No', because I've only been denied a week, and I'm not nearly desperate enough... but thinking about it maybe I was conscious of the rule, even if I wasn't actually thinking about it...
'Good,' she said. 'That was the right answer....' and then she dropped the line that was absolutely mind-blowing to hear, 'You wouldn't dream of asking me to allow you to cum, would you?'.
'No Mistress' I heard myself say as she smiled back at me, and I knew that I wouldn't, maybe not ever...
We woke up late, finally getting to catch up on some much needed sleep, and decided on an 11:00am start. At the agreed time I was kneeling blindfolded in the bedroom, with my wrist and ankle straps and the Oxballs Cocksling in place. Mistress R came into the room and as usual she wanted to punish me for my infractions, only two this month so it was only half a dozen swats with the paddle and six fairly robust swipes with the cat... stingy but not painful as such.
Then she laid on the bed and had me worship her feet for a while (I love to do this and she knows it) playing with her pussy as I kissed and sucked her toes, instep and soles. This seemed to be over quicker than I was expecting and I was a little frustrated because I didn't seem to be able to slip into my submissive headspace, sometimes it just doesn't happen, and today was one of those days. It was still immensely enjoyable though, and my cock got very hard when she started talking about how long she might make me wait, the words 'much longer' predictably bringing the biggest 'throb'.
Then I was tied on my back and Mistress R started riding my face and, of course, my cock was now getting rather hard, especially with the Cocksling fitted! It seemed to fit perfectly this time, with none of the problems I had last time I used it, which was good. Soon, far sooner than anticipated Mistress R was lubing up my rock hard cock and teasing and rubbing it mercilessly before impaling herself on it... fuck yes, that felt sooooooooooooo good. She got off and back on a couple of times, telling me how she was using 'her' cock for 'her' pleasure, which is just what every chastity-sub wants to hear, isn't it? Fucking hot.
Then she got off and had me lick her pussy a little more and then she stood up and turned away from me so that I was looking up at her gorgeous pussy and ass, then said the most amazing thing. She said 'How bad do you want to cum right now?'. I didn't really know how to answer that and she followed it up with 'Enough to ask me to let you?'.
Truthfully, I wasn't even thinking about the rule that I'm not allowed to ask... I said 'No', because I've only been denied a week, and I'm not nearly desperate enough... but thinking about it maybe I was conscious of the rule, even if I wasn't actually thinking about it...
'Good,' she said. 'That was the right answer....' and then she dropped the line that was absolutely mind-blowing to hear, 'You wouldn't dream of asking me to allow you to cum, would you?'.
'No Mistress' I heard myself say as she smiled back at me, and I knew that I wouldn't, maybe not ever...
After this Mistress R decided to leave me alone for a few minutes, but first she attached clothes pegs to my nipples and pushed a dildo up my ass... when she came back she untied me and told me that she would now allow me to go down on her until she came, and you know how much I hate doing that, right?
I still wasn't really getting into subspace, but it didn't matter anymore because I was doing what I love most of all, eating Mistress R's beautiful pussy and even though I didn't feel like I was quite getting into the rhythm of it, I still managed to bring Mistress R to a pretty violent orgasm, and she seemed very happy indeed. After she had finished she moved off the bed leaving a pool of pussy juice and saliva on the pvc sheet, which I knew I would be clearing up but first she had me lick her clean. She stood on the bed and her juices where dripping down her legs right to her ankles, it was so fucking hot.
(It looked a lot like this, only more so!)
I licked her legs clean and then she gave me permission to clean her ass too, which I eagerly did, pushing my tongue between her cheeks and probing her asshole until she decided that I'd enjoyed myself enough. Sure enough I was ordered to clean the sheet and then lay back down on the bed on my back, my cock semi-hard until she grabbed it again and started to pump it until it was nice and hard once more.
I hadn't expected to be allowed to cum in this session, I just didn't think it was going to be allowed, right from the very start and I was right... no sooner had Mistress R got me hard than she told me the session was over, in fact as we lay together afterwards she told me that was the first time that she had gone into a session knowing that she wasn't going to let me cum, and that she hadn't had second thoughts about it either. She seemed quite happy about it too, commenting that she had broken another 'fence', and that now she'd done it once she knew she could do it whenever it pleased her. More music to my ears of course!
Actually Mistress R looked very relaxed, very confident and very hot throughout the session, in fact she looked absolutely stunning as she played with my rock-hard Cockslinged cock! I think this chastity thing is really starting to work for both of us and every week it seems that Mistress R is liking it more and more.
Friday 16 September 2011
Rob's rants...
I've been thinking for some time that I should start another blog, somewhere for me to rant and rage and generally make people laugh with my indignant surliness... Mistress R reckons it would be a great idea since when I rant she always dissolves into fits of laughter... hmm, well I may well start very soon indeed!!!
A quick follow up to yesterday's post, and a new poll...
As I said yesterday, Mistress R's orgasm on Wednesday night was one of those that felt a little 'forced'... so I wasn't feeling too happy because I worried that I hadn't performed to the best of my abilities. However Mistress R put my mind at rest yesterday when she thanked me for such a wonderful orgasm the night before!
Phew, so I still am the pussy-eating-master I thought I was.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
Moving on, this weeks poll is all about your 'number'. You know what I'm talking about... and there's no need to be shy because no one will know. I mean I will come right out and say that my number is '2'. And one of them was rubbish! I spent three years with an older girl (so much for that old chestnut!) who had no idea or inclination about sex and then when I met Mistress R I was suddenly going to work on three hours sleep because we'd been fucking 4-5 times a night.... quite hard to believe I ever actually did that now of course, but I definitely did!
So, yeah... I have no idea what Mistress R's number is, and I'm sure she's got no desire to tell me now, not that it would bother me (as long as it's the same number it has been since we met, obviously!), I'm sure it's more than two though, in fact I know it is... but it really doesn't bother me. It's not her fault if I was socially inept when I was a teenager is it? I'm certainly not one of those men who apply the classic double standard, he's a 'stud', she's a 'slag', if there'd been a few more 'slags' about for me in my youth I certainly wouldn't have been complaining about it! But neither do I feel like I missed out, I always wanted to settle down and (NOT) have kids from a very early age, so I was very fortunate to meet Mistress R when I did and we've been together 19 years now.
So, tell us your number and we'll see how I stack up, probably pretty badly I imagine!
The results of the 'What age did you lose your virginity' poll were quite interesting, I guess it's not too surprising that 40% of you lost it between the ages of 16-18, with a further 26% losing it between the ages of 19-21. There was a few early starters with 7% of you losing your virginity at either 14 or 15, 1 person started even younger than that... but what surprised me the most was that 21% of you didn't lose your virginity until after you were 21.
Of course when looking at these figures we should remember that in some European countries the age of consent is actually 14 not 16, and obviously I don't know where these votes have come from.
Phew, so I still am the pussy-eating-master I thought I was.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
Moving on, this weeks poll is all about your 'number'. You know what I'm talking about... and there's no need to be shy because no one will know. I mean I will come right out and say that my number is '2'. And one of them was rubbish! I spent three years with an older girl (so much for that old chestnut!) who had no idea or inclination about sex and then when I met Mistress R I was suddenly going to work on three hours sleep because we'd been fucking 4-5 times a night.... quite hard to believe I ever actually did that now of course, but I definitely did!
So, yeah... I have no idea what Mistress R's number is, and I'm sure she's got no desire to tell me now, not that it would bother me (as long as it's the same number it has been since we met, obviously!), I'm sure it's more than two though, in fact I know it is... but it really doesn't bother me. It's not her fault if I was socially inept when I was a teenager is it? I'm certainly not one of those men who apply the classic double standard, he's a 'stud', she's a 'slag', if there'd been a few more 'slags' about for me in my youth I certainly wouldn't have been complaining about it! But neither do I feel like I missed out, I always wanted to settle down and (NOT) have kids from a very early age, so I was very fortunate to meet Mistress R when I did and we've been together 19 years now.
So, tell us your number and we'll see how I stack up, probably pretty badly I imagine!
The results of the 'What age did you lose your virginity' poll were quite interesting, I guess it's not too surprising that 40% of you lost it between the ages of 16-18, with a further 26% losing it between the ages of 19-21. There was a few early starters with 7% of you losing your virginity at either 14 or 15, 1 person started even younger than that... but what surprised me the most was that 21% of you didn't lose your virginity until after you were 21.
Of course when looking at these figures we should remember that in some European countries the age of consent is actually 14 not 16, and obviously I don't know where these votes have come from.
Wednesday 14 September 2011
One of those difficult ones...
Mistress R allowed me to worship her beautiful pussy last night, which made me very happy indeed! She did cum, eventually, though it was one of those (rare these days) difficult ones, y'know when you really don't think it's going to happen but if you persist long enough it will... still, I wasn't complaining, every extra minute spent with my head between Mistress R's thighs is a minute well spent in my eyes!
And we got there in the end.
Well, she did, of course I didn't get anywhere near an orgasm, and why would I, since it's only been four days since I had one. So I guess that'll be it now until Saturday, at least Mistress R did give me some nice teasing and stroking after I made her cum, and a few slaps (frustratingly soft though....), it's our evening out tonight, we are checking out a different place to see if it is a suitable for us to go there for our wedding anniversary which is coming up soon (18 years!). And tomorrow will be the night before our session, so Mistress R will want to keep her powder dry for Saturday.
Oh well, maybe next week she will want a lot more attention, I do hope so.
And we got there in the end.
Well, she did, of course I didn't get anywhere near an orgasm, and why would I, since it's only been four days since I had one. So I guess that'll be it now until Saturday, at least Mistress R did give me some nice teasing and stroking after I made her cum, and a few slaps (frustratingly soft though....), it's our evening out tonight, we are checking out a different place to see if it is a suitable for us to go there for our wedding anniversary which is coming up soon (18 years!). And tomorrow will be the night before our session, so Mistress R will want to keep her powder dry for Saturday.
Oh well, maybe next week she will want a lot more attention, I do hope so.
New banners added to the links page...
I've created and added some banner links to my link page for some of my favourite blog sites. So far I've done 'Nuts4Belle' and 'iHonorHer', and I will also be doing Good Hubby's site and of course Miss Christina's site too.... and possibly some more.
All quiet (but not for too much longer)...
Mistress R was supposed to get some pussy worship last night, but in the end it just didn't happen (sigh), but she has told me that it will definitely be happening tonight! Here's hoping that there'll be some teasing too, since she hasn't touched my cock since Saturday!
Which is probably why I ended up having a sneaky stroke or twenty on Tuesday night, which means that I now have two transgressions to confess to on Saturday, still two in a month is pretty good!
Yes it's that time again, Saturday will be our monthly Femdom session, it's usually on a Sunday but we are going out on Saturday night and we'll probably be home very late so best to do it on Saturday. I very much doubt I will be coming so it won't make a scraps worth of difference to the length of my chastity.
But then again, maybe I will... I've just had a twenty day stretch, and before that I was allowed to come three times in a fortnight, so who knows. I think Mistress R is more comfortable about making me swallow my cum in the sessions than out of them so maybe...
Is it too much to hope to be allowed to cum inside her and then for her to sit on my face so that I can lick her pussy clean? I haven't cum inside her since July after all...
I guess I'll just have to wait and see.
Which is probably why I ended up having a sneaky stroke or twenty on Tuesday night, which means that I now have two transgressions to confess to on Saturday, still two in a month is pretty good!
Yes it's that time again, Saturday will be our monthly Femdom session, it's usually on a Sunday but we are going out on Saturday night and we'll probably be home very late so best to do it on Saturday. I very much doubt I will be coming so it won't make a scraps worth of difference to the length of my chastity.
But then again, maybe I will... I've just had a twenty day stretch, and before that I was allowed to come three times in a fortnight, so who knows. I think Mistress R is more comfortable about making me swallow my cum in the sessions than out of them so maybe...
Is it too much to hope to be allowed to cum inside her and then for her to sit on my face so that I can lick her pussy clean? I haven't cum inside her since July after all...
I guess I'll just have to wait and see.
Tuesday 13 September 2011
Education...
For well over ten years I have been a regular poster on a music website, and this site has it's own porn thread where people post links to porn or discuss porn. In recent times there's been a young guy on there (17 I believe) who is enormously well educated and seems to be able to run rings around most people when it comes to most subjects, I mean how many seventeen year olds do you know who have an informed opinion on female circumcision? Which wouldn't be so bad if he wasn't so bloody 'right-on'...
One area where he is particularly clueless is women, and I take great delight in this because he thinks he knows what he's talking about and he is going to find out the hard way sooner or later. He truly believes that all porn is bad, and exploitative of women, and blah blah blah blah blah.... nothing you haven't heard before a million times really.
So recently someone posted a porn clip into the thread which showed a M/f BDSM scene, I couldn't actually be bothered to watch it but I'm sure it wasn't much to shout about, someone mentioned something about toe-sucking so if that was the highlight well.... actually there was some choking and face slapping but from what was said it wasn't anything that you wouldn't see in any normal Gonzo porn DVD.
Naturally this sent off our young friend on another of his rants, and some of the other posters were taking the piss out of him for his conservative viewpoint. Indeed one (female) poster was trying to make him aware that indeed some women do like to be submissive and (as he would see it) 'abused' in bed, but it was too much for his massive brain to compute.
She actually posted, ":...in this thread the 17 year old virgin doesn't understand sex...", which. I must confess, made me laugh a little.
So I decided the best way to blow his mind would be to copy and paste part of a post from Good Hubby's blog, I can only imagine his face when he was reading about NW begging to have her vulva whipped until it was swollen to twice it's normal size.... I mean, I found that quite hard to read, so I can't imagine what he made of it...
Still, if it knocks this stupid idea that BDSM is all 'violence against women' out of him then it's all to the good. Of course the chances of him hooking up with a women who takes pleasure in physical pain are slim, but if he at least learns that life, and sex in particular isn't all as black and white as he perceives it then that has to be a good thing, doesn't it?
After all, it would be a shame if he ends up dating a girl who's desperate to reveal her 'sordid' secret, and he's so shocked and confused by it that he treats her like a freak and tries to convince her that she's been 'brainwashed' by porn or some nonsense. I (like most of you) know how hard it is to tell a lover that you want something 'unusual' and the last thing you need when you do is some moralising arsehole telling you that you're weird and disgusting.
There's nothing worse than a know it all seventeen year old is there. I'm sure I wasn't like that when I was seventeen, in fact I know I wasn't... at seventeen I was pretty clueless about women and I was all too aware of it. The internet and Wikipedia in particular has a lot to answer for....
One area where he is particularly clueless is women, and I take great delight in this because he thinks he knows what he's talking about and he is going to find out the hard way sooner or later. He truly believes that all porn is bad, and exploitative of women, and blah blah blah blah blah.... nothing you haven't heard before a million times really.
So recently someone posted a porn clip into the thread which showed a M/f BDSM scene, I couldn't actually be bothered to watch it but I'm sure it wasn't much to shout about, someone mentioned something about toe-sucking so if that was the highlight well.... actually there was some choking and face slapping but from what was said it wasn't anything that you wouldn't see in any normal Gonzo porn DVD.
Naturally this sent off our young friend on another of his rants, and some of the other posters were taking the piss out of him for his conservative viewpoint. Indeed one (female) poster was trying to make him aware that indeed some women do like to be submissive and (as he would see it) 'abused' in bed, but it was too much for his massive brain to compute.
She actually posted, ":...in this thread the 17 year old virgin doesn't understand sex...", which. I must confess, made me laugh a little.
So I decided the best way to blow his mind would be to copy and paste part of a post from Good Hubby's blog, I can only imagine his face when he was reading about NW begging to have her vulva whipped until it was swollen to twice it's normal size.... I mean, I found that quite hard to read, so I can't imagine what he made of it...
Still, if it knocks this stupid idea that BDSM is all 'violence against women' out of him then it's all to the good. Of course the chances of him hooking up with a women who takes pleasure in physical pain are slim, but if he at least learns that life, and sex in particular isn't all as black and white as he perceives it then that has to be a good thing, doesn't it?
After all, it would be a shame if he ends up dating a girl who's desperate to reveal her 'sordid' secret, and he's so shocked and confused by it that he treats her like a freak and tries to convince her that she's been 'brainwashed' by porn or some nonsense. I (like most of you) know how hard it is to tell a lover that you want something 'unusual' and the last thing you need when you do is some moralising arsehole telling you that you're weird and disgusting.
There's nothing worse than a know it all seventeen year old is there. I'm sure I wasn't like that when I was seventeen, in fact I know I wasn't... at seventeen I was pretty clueless about women and I was all too aware of it. The internet and Wikipedia in particular has a lot to answer for....
Sunday 11 September 2011
And another one makes 52...
I finally got to worship Mistress R's beautiful pussy this afternoon and gave her her 52nd orgasm since we started this (52 to 12, that's a ratio of 4.33), well worth waiting for as always, I love feeling her cum on my tongue.... it beats everything, yes even spunking on my chest last night - hahahaha.
Oh well, back to work tomorrow and back to the diet too! Been a very bad man lately and to a degree I've gotten away with it, but now it must stop. I would like to lose another stone before my birthday, and that's only just over a month away, so the next few weeks are gonna be TOUGH!
Oh well, back to work tomorrow and back to the diet too! Been a very bad man lately and to a degree I've gotten away with it, but now it must stop. I would like to lose another stone before my birthday, and that's only just over a month away, so the next few weeks are gonna be TOUGH!
Twenty days and done...
So last night Mistress R decided it was time for me to cum. She had me sit on the sofa and then started sucking my cock beautifully. I still wasn't 100% sure this was going to be it, and she kept me guessing by slowing down and changing from hard and fast stroking to sucking my balls every so often, it really was a killer blowjob! Then she started to pump me harder and even though I tried to keep control, I could feel that I was starting to edge towards losing it. I told her I was getting close and she started pumping harder, pushing my T-shirt up to expose my stomach and chest, "I want you to cum for me", she said.
Well, it didn't take long after that and I had a massive orgasm, the first jet of which landed right up on my chest, another couple of weeks and I reckon it would have been in my mouth! What can I say, it was fucking amazing and well worth the wait. There seemed to be quite a substantial amount of cum too, but Mistress R didn't make me lick her hand clean or anything. Not that I'm complaining, I wasn't really in the mood for that last night (but obviously I would have done it if she'd told me to).
Ah well, so it's day one once again and the last day of our holiday too. Back to work tomorrow. At least there's a Grand Prix today and hopefully I'll get to worship Mistress R's pussy too (seeing as it didn't happen yesterday)... I did manage about two meagre minutes of foot worship late last night, but that's no substitute for the real thing is it?
Regarding my poll, I always thought I was a late starter, but it seems that maybe I wasn't after all... I must admit that I am a little surprised that 25% of you first had sex in your twenties, although to be honest with you, in hindsight, I'm not sure I was really ready myself until way after eighteen. When I hear about guys who ended up with children by their first girlfriend I think 'there but for the grace of God go I'. She was hopeless at taking her pills*, just as well she had me cum on her stomach most of the time innit! Ruined orgasms too, since I was too shy to actually finish myself off and she would rather let a Grizzly bear lick honey off her hand than get cum on her fingers...
While we are on the subject, I may have mentioned this before, but it bears repeating.... I was 18 and about to get my first blowjob, so as you can imagine, I was quite excited! So she's just about to start and she looks up at me and says, "Don't touch my head, don't cum in my mouth and don't look at me!".
Okay so, maybe two of those are fair enough, especially for a blowjob first timer, but 'Don't look at me', WTF!
You know the funniest thing is that some of you guys are probably thinking that my first girlfriend sounds like your ideal Femdom-Chastity uber-bitch! Hmm, well she was certainly selfish, she certainly wouldn't care less if you came for, well, as long as you liked really, she had a sense of entitlement for sure, she also once told me she aspired to being someone's 'Mistress', but in the sense that she fancied the idea of having a married man paying for her flat etc.... well, I doubt that one's come about frankly.
I could also imagine her being quite willing to kick you in the balls if that's what you wanted, and she'd probably be happier fucking you up the arse than taking it herself... anyone want her number?**
*I know, I know, take some responsibility and wear condoms. And now, of course, I would! And I'd have a vasectomy too!!
**Only joking... I don't have her number (why the fuck would I).
Well, it didn't take long after that and I had a massive orgasm, the first jet of which landed right up on my chest, another couple of weeks and I reckon it would have been in my mouth! What can I say, it was fucking amazing and well worth the wait. There seemed to be quite a substantial amount of cum too, but Mistress R didn't make me lick her hand clean or anything. Not that I'm complaining, I wasn't really in the mood for that last night (but obviously I would have done it if she'd told me to).
Ah well, so it's day one once again and the last day of our holiday too. Back to work tomorrow. At least there's a Grand Prix today and hopefully I'll get to worship Mistress R's pussy too (seeing as it didn't happen yesterday)... I did manage about two meagre minutes of foot worship late last night, but that's no substitute for the real thing is it?
Regarding my poll, I always thought I was a late starter, but it seems that maybe I wasn't after all... I must admit that I am a little surprised that 25% of you first had sex in your twenties, although to be honest with you, in hindsight, I'm not sure I was really ready myself until way after eighteen. When I hear about guys who ended up with children by their first girlfriend I think 'there but for the grace of God go I'. She was hopeless at taking her pills*, just as well she had me cum on her stomach most of the time innit! Ruined orgasms too, since I was too shy to actually finish myself off and she would rather let a Grizzly bear lick honey off her hand than get cum on her fingers...
While we are on the subject, I may have mentioned this before, but it bears repeating.... I was 18 and about to get my first blowjob, so as you can imagine, I was quite excited! So she's just about to start and she looks up at me and says, "Don't touch my head, don't cum in my mouth and don't look at me!".
Okay so, maybe two of those are fair enough, especially for a blowjob first timer, but 'Don't look at me', WTF!
You know the funniest thing is that some of you guys are probably thinking that my first girlfriend sounds like your ideal Femdom-Chastity uber-bitch! Hmm, well she was certainly selfish, she certainly wouldn't care less if you came for, well, as long as you liked really, she had a sense of entitlement for sure, she also once told me she aspired to being someone's 'Mistress', but in the sense that she fancied the idea of having a married man paying for her flat etc.... well, I doubt that one's come about frankly.
I could also imagine her being quite willing to kick you in the balls if that's what you wanted, and she'd probably be happier fucking you up the arse than taking it herself... anyone want her number?**
*I know, I know, take some responsibility and wear condoms. And now, of course, I would! And I'd have a vasectomy too!!
**Only joking... I don't have her number (why the fuck would I).
Saturday 10 September 2011
Another great post at Nuts4Belle...
Check it out here.
So which would you choose? To be unlocked and sucked but not allowed to cum... or to be unlocked and allowed to give yourself a ruined orgasm which you then have to drink from a shot glass?
I guess it would probably depend on how long it was since I had cum... Jnuts hadn't cum in two weeks, which probably wouldn't be long enough to make me choose the shotglass, but then again maybe it would.... I dunno. Okay yeah it probably would, hahaha... the thought of being made to ruin it and swallow my cum would probably be enough actually...
Well, click the link and find out what Jnuts decided!
So which would you choose? To be unlocked and sucked but not allowed to cum... or to be unlocked and allowed to give yourself a ruined orgasm which you then have to drink from a shot glass?
I guess it would probably depend on how long it was since I had cum... Jnuts hadn't cum in two weeks, which probably wouldn't be long enough to make me choose the shotglass, but then again maybe it would.... I dunno. Okay yeah it probably would, hahaha... the thought of being made to ruin it and swallow my cum would probably be enough actually...
Well, click the link and find out what Jnuts decided!
Yikes, spikes...
Just checking out a couple of sites from my favourite lists and happened across Nemo's blog where he is currently posting some captions with a 'spike' theme (check them out here) and also Cage Chronicles (welcome back after your break) where Chris has been posting about the scary metal spikes that are being put into his chastity device by Mel (he loves it really...) you can read about these here
I must say, the idea of having a chastity device with spikes in it has always appealed to me... and Nemo's captions particularly appealed, especially the way the women are deliberately turning their slave on with the express intention of causing them discomfort.... that's hot!
Can't remember the last time I even tried my CB-3000 on, it's currently languishing forgotten in a drawer as we speak (it does actually have spikes though, so maybe one day Mistress R will surprise me by telling me to put it on? Doubtful, but a nice fantasy all the same...).
I must say, the idea of having a chastity device with spikes in it has always appealed to me... and Nemo's captions particularly appealed, especially the way the women are deliberately turning their slave on with the express intention of causing them discomfort.... that's hot!
Can't remember the last time I even tried my CB-3000 on, it's currently languishing forgotten in a drawer as we speak (it does actually have spikes though, so maybe one day Mistress R will surprise me by telling me to put it on? Doubtful, but a nice fantasy all the same...).
30 lovely minutes...
Last night I spent a lovely thirty odd minutes worshipping Mistress R's beautiful feet, it really was wonderful. Today I hope to spend thirty odd minutes worshipping her pussy, which will be even better! Maybe Mistress R will let me cum today too? She hinted that she might let me cum this holiday and time's running out... I don't mind if she doesn't though. Our Femdom session is due next Saturday too, good times ahead!
New poll, so when was it...
This time I'm asking a pretty straight-forward question, when did you lose you virginity. No grey areas. Losing your virginity is cock in pussy, unless you're gay I suppose.... anyway, I'll let you guys decide the finer details.
For me I was 18, and she was 21.... and then we dated for three years, split up, I had a barren six months and then I met Mistress R (who is about 6 months younger than me), which means, I never got to have sex with a teenager, even when I was a teenager! Weak!
Anyway, as for the last poll, unsurprisingly 52% of you waited 'years' to reveal your kinky side to your partner... although I can't help thinking that many of you, like me, probably didn't realise or truly acknowledge your kinkiness until you were already with someone for years. And then of course you have a dilemma....
21% of you waited 'months' and 8% 'weeks'. 1 person actually outed themselves on their first date and 18% are waiting for the right moment... good luck!
Welcome to my 70th follower, I seem to pick up about ten every month, so this is a good sign. Albeit my hits have really took a beating this week, after nearly hitting 3000 on the 5th.... oh well, must be holiday time!
For me I was 18, and she was 21.... and then we dated for three years, split up, I had a barren six months and then I met Mistress R (who is about 6 months younger than me), which means, I never got to have sex with a teenager, even when I was a teenager! Weak!
Anyway, as for the last poll, unsurprisingly 52% of you waited 'years' to reveal your kinky side to your partner... although I can't help thinking that many of you, like me, probably didn't realise or truly acknowledge your kinkiness until you were already with someone for years. And then of course you have a dilemma....
21% of you waited 'months' and 8% 'weeks'. 1 person actually outed themselves on their first date and 18% are waiting for the right moment... good luck!
Welcome to my 70th follower, I seem to pick up about ten every month, so this is a good sign. Albeit my hits have really took a beating this week, after nearly hitting 3000 on the 5th.... oh well, must be holiday time!
Friday 9 September 2011
A conversation last night...
Mistress R and I had our usual Thursday night at the pub last night and during this the topic of chastity came up and we discussed how it was going and we were pretty much in agreement that it's all good now. She asked me if I'd stopped worrying about it now, and I have, what's more I'd forgotten that I had been worrying about it at all... I guess that's partly because Mistress R has been a lot more generous with the penetration of late. But then again, maybe I've just got over it. I really love being inside her but I love it when she uses her hands on me too, it's not like her hands are an inferior substitute or one's better than the other, after all, she can't slap my cock with her pussy can she?
Anyway, we talked a bit about it all and how smoothly things are running between us now. I can't ever remember being so relaxed about sex, I mean I probably was a long time ago, but it was a long time ago. I honestly think chastity and Mistress R having control of my orgasms has benefited our sex life (and relationship) enormously. I love that Mistress R wants me to worship her pussy pretty much every other day now (oh sure every day would be even better, but maybe that's just me being greedy! Hahaha) and that she's finally accepted that I really don't mind if it takes a long time for her to cum, and of course this increasingly relaxed attitude means that she will probably want more attention and won't be reticent about asking for it whenever she wants it. Which is perfect.
I knew there would be stumbling blocks along the way, and who knows maybe there's more to come, but right now it feels very 'right'. I think the big thing I would say to any guy looking to be in my position is that you have to be straight up and you have to stick to your part of the deal. If you say that you want her to control your orgasms, then you better be prepared to accept it when she makes you wait a month. If you agree that penetration will only happen when she wants it to happen, then you better not start moaning about it if it doesn't happen as often as you thought it would.
I know that all sounds pretty straightforward but until it actually happens to you, well... let's just say it might not be as easy as you thought. But the thing is this, if you ask for this and then you fight it, what is she supposed to think, why wouldn't she tell you to forget it? She's going out of her way to give you what you've told her you want and then she's getting nothing but hassle for her trouble?
I think part of the problem is that a lot of guys think that it will be great for her, and it will, but not straight away. It takes time for the woman to accept what's happening and for it to stop being 'weird' and then she will probably enjoy it and appreciate the benefits.
As those of you who have read my blog from the start know, it's not always been easy over the last 6 months, but I stuck it out, and now I'm reaping the benefits. And I think if you want to live this way you have to be prepared for some period of adjustment. Most women are not going to embrace this straight away, no matter how much you explain the benefits to her, oh sure that might help, but they are still going to feel weird about 'stopping' before you cum and having sex and stopping when you can't take anymore without cumming.
I should think Mistress R and I are one of the few couples who haven't had any 'accidents' on our way to chastity, and maybe we stumbled into an easy path, starting with the 'week of chastity' leading up to our femdom sessions, then increasing it incrementally to a fortnight and then three weeks before finally having her take over total control.
I still can't really believe that about a year ago Mistress R was completely against this idea. She hated the idea and I dropped it, because she was more important to me than some sex-game, and then she brought it up a few weeks later... I was very lucky there, even though I knew she was only doing it for me and not for herself. I knew damn well she wasn't buying into the supposed 'benefits to her', they really only came later...
Anyway, I notice that a lot of blogs are a bit inactive at the moment and my own hits seem to be taking a dive too, oh well, it doesn't matter to me really, I'll still be here flying the chastity flag.
Nuts4Belle has made a post on his blog which seems appropriate to quote check it out here...
After she was done, she wanted to go to sleep. I should have left it at that. That is what a good husband does. Of course I became a little bitch. Begging to be unlocked, saying I couldn’t sleep, tossing and turning.
I made her feel guilty. She was doing everything right and I’m so glad she stuck to her guns. I feel really bad about it now.
Anyway, we talked a bit about it all and how smoothly things are running between us now. I can't ever remember being so relaxed about sex, I mean I probably was a long time ago, but it was a long time ago. I honestly think chastity and Mistress R having control of my orgasms has benefited our sex life (and relationship) enormously. I love that Mistress R wants me to worship her pussy pretty much every other day now (oh sure every day would be even better, but maybe that's just me being greedy! Hahaha) and that she's finally accepted that I really don't mind if it takes a long time for her to cum, and of course this increasingly relaxed attitude means that she will probably want more attention and won't be reticent about asking for it whenever she wants it. Which is perfect.
I knew there would be stumbling blocks along the way, and who knows maybe there's more to come, but right now it feels very 'right'. I think the big thing I would say to any guy looking to be in my position is that you have to be straight up and you have to stick to your part of the deal. If you say that you want her to control your orgasms, then you better be prepared to accept it when she makes you wait a month. If you agree that penetration will only happen when she wants it to happen, then you better not start moaning about it if it doesn't happen as often as you thought it would.
I know that all sounds pretty straightforward but until it actually happens to you, well... let's just say it might not be as easy as you thought. But the thing is this, if you ask for this and then you fight it, what is she supposed to think, why wouldn't she tell you to forget it? She's going out of her way to give you what you've told her you want and then she's getting nothing but hassle for her trouble?
I think part of the problem is that a lot of guys think that it will be great for her, and it will, but not straight away. It takes time for the woman to accept what's happening and for it to stop being 'weird' and then she will probably enjoy it and appreciate the benefits.
As those of you who have read my blog from the start know, it's not always been easy over the last 6 months, but I stuck it out, and now I'm reaping the benefits. And I think if you want to live this way you have to be prepared for some period of adjustment. Most women are not going to embrace this straight away, no matter how much you explain the benefits to her, oh sure that might help, but they are still going to feel weird about 'stopping' before you cum and having sex and stopping when you can't take anymore without cumming.
I should think Mistress R and I are one of the few couples who haven't had any 'accidents' on our way to chastity, and maybe we stumbled into an easy path, starting with the 'week of chastity' leading up to our femdom sessions, then increasing it incrementally to a fortnight and then three weeks before finally having her take over total control.
I still can't really believe that about a year ago Mistress R was completely against this idea. She hated the idea and I dropped it, because she was more important to me than some sex-game, and then she brought it up a few weeks later... I was very lucky there, even though I knew she was only doing it for me and not for herself. I knew damn well she wasn't buying into the supposed 'benefits to her', they really only came later...
Anyway, I notice that a lot of blogs are a bit inactive at the moment and my own hits seem to be taking a dive too, oh well, it doesn't matter to me really, I'll still be here flying the chastity flag.
Nuts4Belle has made a post on his blog which seems appropriate to quote check it out here...
I’m totally ashamed of the way I acted last night. Belle was being the perfect keyholder, giving me exactly what I asked for. She woke me up, I got the pleasure of licking her to an orgasm…one of those orgasms that Contracted against my tongue. *shiver* Right before she came, she told me that it was the only orgasm I would feel that night. She also told me I was such a good boy…you know, the things you really love to hear when servicing your wife.
After she was done, she wanted to go to sleep. I should have left it at that. That is what a good husband does. Of course I became a little bitch. Begging to be unlocked, saying I couldn’t sleep, tossing and turning.
I made her feel guilty. She was doing everything right and I’m so glad she stuck to her guns. I feel really bad about it now.
Thursday 8 September 2011
Last day tomorrow...
This week is going so quickly, but isn't that always the way when you don't have to go to work! Fortunately Mistress R and I made time to go to bed this afternoon and I gave her another really hard orgasm with my tongue (they all seem to be hard ones these days, it's great!) and then she teased my cock again but still no orgasm for me. That's eighteen days now, and I could so have blown my load when she was sucking my cock, it felt fucking amazing, but of course, never without permission these days!
I kinda thought she would let me cum today, but she really isn't showing any signs of doing so. Which is great, because while of course I'd love to cum, I love that she's getting more comfortable about not letting me. I love having her control my cock so much, I can't even begin to tell you... as far as I'm concerned she can make me wait as long as she wants to.
It is apparent to me that she is getting used to this 'power' she has now, and when she decides to stop there's barely a hint of the uncertainty she would show a few months ago. I'm sure she loves how hard I get for her when I'm denied too, it must be an ego boost to see how much you turn your husband on like that...
Steady voting in the polls and it's good to see I'm not the only one who waited years to reveal their kinkiness to their partner... God forbid something should ever happen to Mistress R and I had to go through all that again!
I kinda thought she would let me cum today, but she really isn't showing any signs of doing so. Which is great, because while of course I'd love to cum, I love that she's getting more comfortable about not letting me. I love having her control my cock so much, I can't even begin to tell you... as far as I'm concerned she can make me wait as long as she wants to.
It is apparent to me that she is getting used to this 'power' she has now, and when she decides to stop there's barely a hint of the uncertainty she would show a few months ago. I'm sure she loves how hard I get for her when I'm denied too, it must be an ego boost to see how much you turn your husband on like that...
Steady voting in the polls and it's good to see I'm not the only one who waited years to reveal their kinkiness to their partner... God forbid something should ever happen to Mistress R and I had to go through all that again!
Wednesday 7 September 2011
New tease published at Milovana...
For those of you who are interested (and allowed to partake) my latest webtease has been published at Milovana. You can find it here...
Tuesday 6 September 2011
Poll is finished...
The poll is now closed, and as you will all of course remember the question was....
If your wife told you that you were allowed to cum, that you could fuck her anyway you wanted and cum anywhere you wanted, but that she'd prefer it if you just worshipped her ass with your tongue - what would you do?
Well 84% said they would worship her ass and just 16% of you said that you'd go for it!
Well, the new poll is now up and this week Mistress R wants to know, how long did you know your partner before you brought up your Chastity/Femdom kink? For me it was about six years I reckon (for the Femdom side of it, the chastity is more like eighteen years!) so that's why I've made the poll a bit vague, just choose the option that best fits your situation.
If your wife told you that you were allowed to cum, that you could fuck her anyway you wanted and cum anywhere you wanted, but that she'd prefer it if you just worshipped her ass with your tongue - what would you do?
Well 84% said they would worship her ass and just 16% of you said that you'd go for it!
Well, the new poll is now up and this week Mistress R wants to know, how long did you know your partner before you brought up your Chastity/Femdom kink? For me it was about six years I reckon (for the Femdom side of it, the chastity is more like eighteen years!) so that's why I've made the poll a bit vague, just choose the option that best fits your situation.
Mistress R hits 50...
...orgasms that is (since we started full time chastity for me). And after a few days without, it was really lovely to feel her cum under my tongue... I hope there's plenty more of that this week!
After I made her cum she started teasing me and I slowly relaxed and got harder and harder until it was pretty much as hard as I can ever remember it being without a cock ring. Mistress seemed to be enjoying how hard I was for her and straddled me, slipping my rock hard cock inside her still wet pussy. It felt wonderful to be inside her again even though I guess it hasn't been that long.
She rode my cock for longer than I think she has since we started this and I loved every second of it, and as I looked up at her I kept thinking 'any minute now she's going to tell me she wants me to cum inside her...'. Of course as ever I was a little conflicted about that, obviously I wanted to shoot my 16 days of cum into her, but at the same time I wanted her to make me wait, to deny me, to use my cock for her pleasure and to control my orgasm and to grant it only when she wants to... and that ultimately was what she did.
A few times she stopped and bent forward to kiss me with my cock still buried deep inside her and in a way I was actually kinda surprised when she climbed off me, but then she knelt beside me and I thought 'maybe she's going to finish me off by hand...'. Wrong again, she grabbed the base of my still rock-hard cock with her left hand and started slapping it with her right. Then she noticed that my cock was dripping with her pussy juices and scooped some onto her finger and had me lick it clean - that was sooo hot!
And then she kissed me some more and that was the end of my teasing for another day.... so I still have no real idea when I will get to cum again. It's about twelve days until our next Femdom session, but that's no guarantee of anything anymore, maybe she wants me to wait beyond that and to set a new record? Or maybe not. Maybe she will let me cum this week like she said she might, or maybe not?
It does quite amaze me how much control I have over my cock given that I haven't cum for 16 days straight, as it was relatively easy to keep control when I was inside her beautiful, slippery pussy. I am pretty pleased about that though, because it would suck if I had to tell her to stop after thirty seconds like I did a few weeks back!
Well, now our little holiday is out of the way, we can kick back and relax for the rest of the week, and hopefully that means I'll get to worship Mistress R's pussy (and anything else she wants me to worship) a few more times before we have to go back to work on Monday... and if she wants to tease me some more and let me cum (or not let me cum) then I'm sure that'll be wonderful too!
Oh yeah, also.... yesterday was a new record for the blog with a count of 2863 pageviews, thanks a lot!
After I made her cum she started teasing me and I slowly relaxed and got harder and harder until it was pretty much as hard as I can ever remember it being without a cock ring. Mistress seemed to be enjoying how hard I was for her and straddled me, slipping my rock hard cock inside her still wet pussy. It felt wonderful to be inside her again even though I guess it hasn't been that long.
She rode my cock for longer than I think she has since we started this and I loved every second of it, and as I looked up at her I kept thinking 'any minute now she's going to tell me she wants me to cum inside her...'. Of course as ever I was a little conflicted about that, obviously I wanted to shoot my 16 days of cum into her, but at the same time I wanted her to make me wait, to deny me, to use my cock for her pleasure and to control my orgasm and to grant it only when she wants to... and that ultimately was what she did.
A few times she stopped and bent forward to kiss me with my cock still buried deep inside her and in a way I was actually kinda surprised when she climbed off me, but then she knelt beside me and I thought 'maybe she's going to finish me off by hand...'. Wrong again, she grabbed the base of my still rock-hard cock with her left hand and started slapping it with her right. Then she noticed that my cock was dripping with her pussy juices and scooped some onto her finger and had me lick it clean - that was sooo hot!
And then she kissed me some more and that was the end of my teasing for another day.... so I still have no real idea when I will get to cum again. It's about twelve days until our next Femdom session, but that's no guarantee of anything anymore, maybe she wants me to wait beyond that and to set a new record? Or maybe not. Maybe she will let me cum this week like she said she might, or maybe not?
It does quite amaze me how much control I have over my cock given that I haven't cum for 16 days straight, as it was relatively easy to keep control when I was inside her beautiful, slippery pussy. I am pretty pleased about that though, because it would suck if I had to tell her to stop after thirty seconds like I did a few weeks back!
Well, now our little holiday is out of the way, we can kick back and relax for the rest of the week, and hopefully that means I'll get to worship Mistress R's pussy (and anything else she wants me to worship) a few more times before we have to go back to work on Monday... and if she wants to tease me some more and let me cum (or not let me cum) then I'm sure that'll be wonderful too!
Oh yeah, also.... yesterday was a new record for the blog with a count of 2863 pageviews, thanks a lot!
Monday 5 September 2011
Back from hols...
So Mistress R and I just got back a couple of hours ago... I see I've gained a couple of new followers since Friday - welcome to both of you, I hope you enjoy my blog.
Well, our trip was an experience, Bruges is a nice place, and there are 52 chocolate shops in the city. Can't be bad. I did find it a bit odd that some of them had chocolate cocks in them though, I mean I wouldn't expect to find Thorntons selling chocolate cocks, and the ones with the white chocolate cum dribble.... that's just going too far... (actually these pictures aren't nearly as 'precise' as the ones we saw, they were more like pre-cum dribbles!).
Well, our trip was an experience, Bruges is a nice place, and there are 52 chocolate shops in the city. Can't be bad. I did find it a bit odd that some of them had chocolate cocks in them though, I mean I wouldn't expect to find Thorntons selling chocolate cocks, and the ones with the white chocolate cum dribble.... that's just going too far... (actually these pictures aren't nearly as 'precise' as the ones we saw, they were more like pre-cum dribbles!).
(Who buys this stuff, it's just really lame...)
Anyway, that aside, Bruges is nice and Mistress R and I had an absolutely awesome serving of 'Frites' in the main square at 'The Fritery', thoroughly recommended! Shortly after this I remarked to her that her next orgasm would be her 50th since we started this and she asked how many I will have had next time I am allowed to cum. I told her my next will be my twelfth since April 1st. She mused a little while on the ratio of four to one, but didn't give any indication of when that twelfth one might be (earlier the previous day when we had been queueing to get on the boat she asked me how long I had been waiting to cum, I told her 12 days and she said 'Oh, not that long then really...' which of course immediately made me hard. I love it when she says things like that, like two weeks is nothing for me to wait... so HOT!!!!).
Unfortunately Mistress R didn't hit her 50th orgasm on our trip, as the boat was quite noisy and it really wasn't a good environment for Mistress to relax enough in, still... she did give me some wonderful teasing, and she never even took my shorts off! We were crashed on the cabin bed after returning from Bruges and she reached down and started pressing on and stimulating my cock, which quickly got hard since it's now almost two weeks since I have cum. She kept this up for maybe 5 minutes or maybe a little longer, which was wonderful as my cock was trapped inside my shorts and boxers as she rubbed it and tickled the head.
When she'd had enough she asked me for one of the Belgian chocolates we had bought and I gave her one and then I turned around on the bed and started to kiss her lovely legs.
Mistress R said 'I wouldn't get too close to my feet if I were you' (since we'd just got back from a six hour excursion around Bruges), but I ignored her and started to kiss her beautiful soft feet anyway. I must have kissed them for about 15 minutes while Mistress R read her book and my cock was hard the entire time. Of course Mistress R's feet weren't quite as beautifully 'fragrant' as usual, but it certainly wasn't unpleasant and I loved doing it (hence the hard cock!)... in fact it felt a lot more submissive worshipping her feet like this than if she'd just washed them... besides I would of course love it one day if Mistress would be confident enough to 'expect' me to worship any part of her gorgeous body at any time she wanted. We are a long way from that of course, but maybe this was a tiny step towards that ultimate goal.
I guess it's a hard thing for women to understand that sometimes we don't want them to smell of nothing but soap and fruit and flowers... anyway I really did love every last second of it.
On the drive home this morning Mistress R said to me, 'Maybe you will get to cum' this holiday' (we are off work this week, even though we are back home now after our weekend away), I just said 'Well that's for you to decide', she just smiled...
I honestly don't mind what she decides, either way will be lovely for me! I'm more eager to get her to her fiftieth than worrying about my own orgasm to be honest.
It's funny, I read something the other day (I think it was on Thumper's blog, but I'm not 100% sure) and he said that rather than craving his own orgasm, instead he craves the feeling of making his wife cum, and I can totally relate to that. Cos that's exactly how I feel these days too. The only time I really crave my own orgasm is when I'm getting close to having one, that's when it really kicks in...
Well, okay, maybe there are a few other times too (hahaha) but mostly it really is all about her pleasure. Just the way it should be!
Friday 2 September 2011
Mmmm, nice...
So Mistress R just had her 49th orgasm since we started, so maybe number 50 will come on our short holiday this weekend (I've scheduled a few captions to keep you entertained)... also, after Mistress R came she played with my cock for a while and slapped it until it was nice and hard (it would have been a lot quicker if she hadn't kept asking me what I'd packed - FFS!) and then she straddled my cock and I had a good few minutes inside her beautiful pussy... no orgasm though, but that's okay, it was wonderful anyway...
See you all Monday night.
See you all Monday night.
Well...
The April and May digest emails are ready, but that is a LOT of hassle!!! I need a break before I do Jun, July and August.... and this afternoon I need to make some captions to tide you guys over until Tuesday.
The poll so far...
I don't know whether I'm impressed or what, 81% of you would forego the chance to do whatever you wanted, with no repercussions or punishment, even if you hadn't cum for two weeks or more... even I'm wondering if I haven't been a little hasty, especially as I have been in a similar position many years ago and I've never forgiven myself...
New links tab added...
While I'm messing about with the site I've decided to move those banners off onto their own links page. At least they look tidy now. The only one I haven't moved is the Keyheld banner because they provide me with a LOT of traffic, and if it wasn't for them this blog wouldn't be half as popular as it is.
Thursday 1 September 2011
A new look...
That black blog look is really cool, but I imagine trying to read a long story might be really tough on the eyes, and since I've got Word I've noticed that cutting and pasting into a doc from my blog is a pain in the ass... black text should be so much better.
New poll is up... (read this before voting!!!)
Hmm, I've closed the poll early, it's not getting a lot of response and as it happens something else has come up which is much more interesting....
But, before I get on to that, here are the results of the old poll.
19% met their partners at work, 17% either at school or online, 11% through friends, 8% in a club or pub while the majority (28%) met 'somewhere else'...
Fascinating stuff I'm sure you'll agree - hahaha.
Anyway, to the new poll... this was inspired by a caption I saw on another site (check it out here). Basically it's what you might call a 'test of devotion'...
Your Mistress (unlocks you - if you are in a chastity device, and) gives you permission to fuck her anyway you want and cum wherever you want, but then she tells you that she'd prefer it if you just worshipped her ass with your tongue instead. The caption doesn't make it clear, but let's assume there will be no recriminations or punishments for your choice, it is genuinely your choice. Again the caption doesn't specify how long it is since you have cum, but let's assume it's at least a couple of weeks. So, what would you do?
Be honest! And bear in mind you might NEVER get this chance again...
If it was me, I would worship her ass with my tongue, no question (although for sure I might regret it for the rest of my life - haha!)
But, before I get on to that, here are the results of the old poll.
19% met their partners at work, 17% either at school or online, 11% through friends, 8% in a club or pub while the majority (28%) met 'somewhere else'...
Fascinating stuff I'm sure you'll agree - hahaha.
Anyway, to the new poll... this was inspired by a caption I saw on another site (check it out here). Basically it's what you might call a 'test of devotion'...
Your Mistress (unlocks you - if you are in a chastity device, and) gives you permission to fuck her anyway you want and cum wherever you want, but then she tells you that she'd prefer it if you just worshipped her ass with your tongue instead. The caption doesn't make it clear, but let's assume there will be no recriminations or punishments for your choice, it is genuinely your choice. Again the caption doesn't specify how long it is since you have cum, but let's assume it's at least a couple of weeks. So, what would you do?
Be honest! And bear in mind you might NEVER get this chance again...
If it was me, I would worship her ass with my tongue, no question (although for sure I might regret it for the rest of my life - haha!)
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