Someone just asked me....

Regarding the poll, what if they had a threesome with a girl and another guy and the girl sucked them both off at the same time so that their cocks where rubbing together in her mouth! Well, I guess I would say that was 'kind of' a same sex experience, but that's all....

Poll finished...

So, 72% of the women who voted have deliberately ruined a partner's orgasm, while 56% of the men who voted have been on the receiving end of the same. A further 10% of men have 'sort of' had an orgasm ruined for them and the balance have neither given or received.

This weeks poll is to do with same-sex experiences, and when I say 'sexual experiences' I mean, you know, at least something more than a drunken snog... happy voting!

My cold is worse today, so fucking annoying!

A new blog you all need to check out...

Our dear friend Miss Christina has launched a brand new blog which mainly details her exploits with her new sub 'Jay'. It's a fascinating insight into Miss Christina's journey from online Mistress to real-life domme, so I heartily recommend you visit 'here' right now and bookmark the site for future use, because it's gonna be really good stuff! You can also access the blog from my blog roll and my links page (link will be added later today).

This sucks...

I've got a cold and it sucks. Tonight was supposed to be fun-time, but I don't see it happening now, bah! All the more annoying because Mistress R is getting closer and closer to her 100th orgasm since we started this and when she gets there I've got a little surprise for her... oh well, if it doesn't happen tonight and we go out on Thursday like we normally do, I guess it won't happen before Friday at the earliest, sigh...

Nice to see this here blog is still picking up new followers, nearly twenty more since the big split I think, which is very encouraging.

Just a few odds'n'ends...

I guess most of you will have read this already, but 'k' has finally got around to posting about last weekend's fun and games, and anyone with an interest in cuckolding won't want to miss this post (here).

Another orgasm for Mistress R last night and some teasing for me, nothing really noteworthy. Mistress R admitted later that she wasn't really in the mood and I picked up on that so I wasn't either really, still...

Our good friend Miss Christina is having a fun time this weekend, looking forward to hearing all about it when she gets time

Quite amazed by the poll results so far, especially that 70% of the women who voted have ruined one of their partners orgasms deliberately...

The pleasure of deferred pleasure...

In Good Hubby's latest post (here) he describes how his attitude to masturbation has changed over the last 30+ days. He has always been quite frank about how he uses masturbation to relieve stress and the fact that he would commonly jerk off three times a day. However, for his latest period of orgasm control he and NW agreed that all stimulation would come from her (GH and NW are not in a Femdom type relationship) and so he has not been touching his cock. Today he is stressed and he caught himself thinking about an orgasm as a means of relieving work stress, but as he says 'the concept of masturbating feels alien' to him now.
In some ways I can understand his sentiment. For me I wouldn't say masturbation has lost it's appeal, although it is undoubtedly inferior! My own relationship with masturbation has changed because I want Mistress R to have all the control I can possibly give her over my cock, partly because I love the thought of being controlled by her, but also because I know that if I refrain from stimulating myself when Mistress R does decide to touch me it will be all the sweeter.
It's hard to believe that Mistress R granted me the safety net of three 'chances' between each orgasm and after the first few months I've hardly used any of them. I think this is partly because of the way it was done. If, for instance I had been granted three chances per week or month, you can be sure I would have used them a lot more, but never knowing how long I would have to wait made me keep them in reserve, often until it was too late and Mistress R allowed me to cum, thus wasting those chances, and this pattern repeated over and over until I realised that actually it was much better to wait for Mistress R than to pleasure myself (even under her supervision).
Eventually I started to forget that I even had the option to ask for permission to touch, until I finally acknowledged to Mistress R what I had felt for some time, that I no longer really needed or wanted those 'chances'.
If you have read my write up on our Femdom session last weekend you will know that during that session Mistress R told me that she was reducing my chances to two between orgasms. She reminded me that she could take them away completely at any time if she wanted to, but that 'for now' she was going to reduce it to two chances.
Part of me thinks that I want her to take them away completely, and part of me thinks, but what if she does start pushing you to much longer periods of denial? But then part of me thinks, so what if she does? I still won't use them unless I absolutely have to... interestingly Mistress R compared my 'chances' to an 'emergency packet of cigarettes' held by someone else for someone who is trying to give up smoking. I can sort of see what she means... though I'd have to say I'd rather wait a few days for a really gooey chocolate cake than have a plain biscuit now (if you see what I mean).
:)

Locked Husband's latest blogpost...

Great post at Locked Husband's blog today. I can really appreciate what he means when he talks about how his wife's orgasms give him more 'emotional' satisfaction than his own and how he can be totally satisfied just by pleasuring her. I have felt this way for so long that I really can't remember it ever being any other way. Which is probably why I get more grumpy than Mistress R does when her cycle gets in the way of things...
I love, love, LOVE making Mistress R cum more than anything. I love being totally absorbed in her pleasure and if truth be told as much as I love feeling her cum against my tongue, it's also like a clock ticking away, because I know that within a minute or two I am going to be torn from the place that I love to be more than any other. Yes, Locked Husband, I totally get it.