FEMDOM SESSION 27th December 2015

Planning a session around Christmas is always risky, since there’s always a better than even chance that one or both of us will be too stuffed / tired / hungover / etc… or that we’ll catch colds. And as expected we were slightly hesitant this time too, but we decided to go for it, and we’re so glad we did because it was awesome!

Mistress left me to choose how to start the session, although she insisted on a blindfold and the regulation wrist and ankle cuffs (of course). I was undecided between the ring-ended glass butt plug/dildo and the larger rubber butt plug. In any case I needed to start with the former and after a minute or so it was already becoming a bit loose (even with the tiniest amount of lube it always seems to fall out, I think it’s better used as a butt ‘dildo’ really) so at the very last minute I decided to switch to the rubber plug.

I was rushing a bit but it went in easy enough, albeit the base was a bit uncomfortable pressed between my cheeks. But this wore off after a couple of minutes as my attention was drawn by the sensation of my backside being whipped and paddled. Just two foot worships missed since the last session, so not too much punishment this time, and Mistress was very pleased that I had no touching infractions to report.

The other choice I made was to wear the Oxballs Ballstretcher (as opposed to the Oxballs Cocksling). This hasn’t had much use and it’s a little tricky to get on, especially when your balls are as ‘high-riding’ as mine are! It certainly works though and leaves your balls very tightly stretched, which Mistress R commented on during the session.

When you first put it on it’s a little uncomfortable, but again you soon get used to it and it feels great once you get hard. As always though, after about thirty minutes it feels good to get it off. But that was a long way off, for now I was kneeling at the bottom of the bed worshipping Mistress’s gorgeous feet while she played with her glass dildo. Blindfolded as I was I could only listen intently as Mistress kept me informed of exactly what she was doing and eventually I could hear the dildo sliding in and out of her wet pussy.

Satisfied with my foot worship, and having had me suck the dildo a couple of times for her, Mistress tied me to the bed and straddled my face, allowing me to taste her pussy properly for the first time.

Soon Mistress pulled off the blindfold and stood over me, allowing me to look up at her gorgeous form. Unlike last time Mistress was wearing a simple black bra and her PVC skirt (and of course her key pendant that she always wears during our sessions). She looked amazing with her gorgeous red lips and wearing a huge smile, obviously enjoying herself, as was I of course! 

Mistress allowed me to watch her fucking herself with her dildo for a little while, before having me suck it clean for her. She did this a couple of times and then straddled my face again. If there’s one thing I love it’s having Mistress’s gorgeous pussy right over my face, it’s so fucking HOT!

Mistress moved off me and then got me properly hard, she coated my cock with lube (essential with the ball stretcher really) and then started stroking and slapping it, before sinking down on it and riding me ‘like a dildo, for her pleasure’ (as she pointed out). It was while riding my cock that Mistress asked how I was enjoying the butt plug in my ass, which, to be perfectly honest I had completely forgotten about it was so comfortable. Mistress alternated between slapping, stroking and riding my cock for a while before standing over me, facing away and exposing her asshole to me.

I really do love this, being tied down and looking up, her gorgeous legs rising up from either side of me, and meeting above me, her beautiful pussy already looking a little stretched and wet, while she uses her hand to open her cheeks and allow me a glimpse of her tight pink asshole. I would love to kiss my way up those awesome legs until I was sitting up against the headboard and then have Mistress press back into my face, my tongue pressed deeply into her ass while she strokes my cock.

Alas, I was tied to the bed, and could only look on, hopefully. Mistress applied more lube to my cock and stroked it hard and fast, before scratching it with the teeth of a hairbrush. It doesn’t really hurt at all, in fact it’s a bit ineffective, having tiny balls on the ends of each tooth, maybe I should look for a better one.

Soon Mistress attached pegs to my nipples (something I pondered starting the session with, but decided against) and left me alone briefly before returning and untying me. By now I was ready to get the Oxballs off as it was starting to sting a little, by contrast I could have left the butt plug in indefinitely. But Mistress told me to remove that too and then told me to get on my hands and knees.

As I did this I could hear Mistress sliding the Rodeo pants on and then felt her applying some lube to my ass. She climbed on the bed behind me and slid her ‘cock’ into my ass. I have to say the rubber butt plug makes such a difference, the initial slight discomfort was over much quicker than usual and after a minute or so I was pushing back against Mistress, wanting her to fuck me harder.

Mistress stopped a few times, with her cock buried as deep as it would go while she stroked my cock. The first couple of times she did it my cock was fairly soft (as usually happens when she fucks me) but by the third and fourth time I had relaxed and was really enjoying being fucked and my cock was getting quite hard (which is pretty unusual for me). Even though Mistress fucked me for longer than she usually does, I would have loved it to go on for longer, it felt great and I think we definitely need to use the rubber butt plug more. I don’t think I was desperate enough this time, but if I had been denied for a lot longer it would have been awesome to see if Mistress could have fucked me until I ruined on the PVC sheet. (There you go SubHub, you can have that as my fantasy for today) 

Of course, while I was slightly disappointed when Mistress pulled out of my ass and left me empty, I knew that my next task would be to lick Mistress to orgasm, and (as always) I was very much looking forward to doing that. Mistress settled back on the bed and I settled between her beautiful, silky smooth thighs, her pussy already wet and delicious. Mistress came pretty hard again, which made me very happy indeed, and then she stood on the bed and ordered me to lick her thighs, ass and pussy clean. I eagerly licked up every drop from her skin before cleaning the PVC sheet and laying on my back again as instructed.

Mistress secured my arms to the bed and then stood over me again, teasing me with her perfect ass. She started stroking my cock while I begged to be allowed to worship her asshole, and soon I had made my tongue buried between her cheeks. I hadn’t really thought about whether Mistress would let me cum, I was tending towards no, but had an odd feeling that she might….

After a couple of periods of ass licking, Mistress told me that she had decided to let me cum and that she wanted me to cum with my tongue in her ass, but that once I told her I was close I would have to cum by the time she counted to ten. She told me to tell her when I was close (which took a surprisingly long time given everything that had happened up to now) and then she sank down and I buried my tongue in her sweet asshole as she pumped my cock hard. It was very intense and felt my body convulsing on the bed as she drained my balls.

As she pumped my cum out over her fingers I heard her counting backwards from ten down to one, whereupon she released my poor sensitive cock and turned round to feed me the cum that was sprayed over her hands. She then collected some more cum from the tip of my cock and fed me that as well.

All in all, it was pretty awesome. I just can’t get over how good it felt being fucked and how hard my cock got while Mistress was doing it. I hope I don’t have to wait too long for that to happen again, and again I can’t believe how quickly the rubber butt-plug felt totally comfortable. 

So Close!

Another lovely orgasm for Mistress on my tongue tonight… she tasted gorgeous and she looked amazing with her pussy hair trimmed right back. Mmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Afterwards Mistress sucked and stroked me, getting me very close to the edge before unexpectedly climbing up over me and sinking herself down on my throbbing cock. I remained perfectly still, no possibility of thrusting up the way I was feeling. Still Mistress started sliding up and down my cock as my fingers gently closed around her left breast.

Well, this was a cert. She was going to let me cum inside her, it was just a matter of how long I could hold back. Surely…

Well, no. As soon as I said ‘I’m getting close’, Mistress smiled and lifted herself off before laying down beside me.

“I’m going to make you wait a little longer…” was all she said, and then she laughed again as I grabbed her and humped my poor denied cock against her smooth skin.

Mistress has now had exactly 6 orgasms for each one I have had since April 1st.

Catching Up!

Time is flying by, and already it’s five days since my last post. But at the same time I really dislike this time of year, it’s nearly Christmas (which means ten days off work for me) but actually it’s not, it’s still over a week away. So we’re in that limbo where you’re mentally switching off, but you’ve still got to keep getting up and going to work.

It’s also going to be a busy week for me, with a police speed awareness course to attend (they finally caught me after 25 years), a visit to my chiropractor and a hospital appointment to fit in before Christmas Eve. Add to this that my laptop seems to be going completely mental and to be honest I’m not in the very best of spirits.

Still, at least I got to cum at the weekend, which of course was lovely! On Friday I went down on my gorgeous Mistress and made her cum, but I had a stomach ache afterwards so my teasing was put off until Saturday. I wasn’t expecting anything more than some stroking, but after a while Mistress mounted my face and ordered ‘tongue out’.

Mistress was already quite wet and she tasted delicious. She sank down on my cock and started riding me, but still I wasn’t anticipating being allowed to cum. She rode me for some time and then lifted of and knelt beside me stroking me hard and fast almost like she was trying to edge me or make me cum.

Then she stopped and told me to get up. My first thought was that she was going to have me jerk off over her gorgeous feet, but this proved to be wide of the mark. Instead she pulled me between her legs and inside her. After a few strokes she turned onto her side and invited me to enjoy looking at her ass as I fucked her.

Well I didn’t really, because I was getting close as it was and the last thing I needed was the sight of Mistress’s sexy asshole pushing me closer to the edge! Before long I had to warn her and Mistress smiled and told me to cum inside her. It was very intense and as soon as started to cum I was unable to move because the sensation was so strong. Mistress pushed herself back on me though until I collapsed over her.

After a few seconds I pulled out and Mistress knelt on the bed as I slid under her to lick her beautiful pussy clean. As is often the case when I cum in her like that, there really wasn’t much cum to swallow, but I got what I could.

Fast forward to today and it was another lovely orgasm for Mistress and some hot teasing for me. I always find the first week after being allowed to cum a bit strange, because you basically know that you aren’t going to be allowed to cum. Despite that Mistress stroked and sucked me beautifully and left my cock very hard and frustrated. Just as it should be.

FEMDOM SESSION 6th December 2015

For one reason or another we haven’t had a Femdom session since the back end of September. But, thankfully, today we got to have a lovely session, where Mistress came very hard and I got well and truly fucked.

Mistress told me to wear my rubber cock ring for the session, which is a solid nitrile ring which goes over my cock and balls and another separate (split) piece which just goes around my balls. Well I struggled to get both of them on, but did eventually… then sank to my knees and waited for Mistress to enter so that the session could start.

Mistress came into the room wearing my favourite outfit, this one

She told me that she had some reasons to punish me, some (though not many) days had passed without her towels being left out for her, and a couple of days had passed without her receiving foot worship, but she wanted to know if I had anything else to confess.

September is a long time ago, but I honestly don’t remember any significant illicit stroking or edging and I told her so. Mistress was pleased, but still punished me with her whip and paddle. As usual, it stung but was not unbearable. Then Mistress had me turn to face the bed and she got up on it and stood over me. She gave me permission to look up at her and I told her that she looked beautiful (she certainly did!).

Mistress leaned forward and told me to suck on her glass dildo, and to get it nice and wet for her pussy. Then she lay on the bed and gave me a brief of her beautifully trimmed pussy, before telling me to keep my eyes down and to concentrate on worshipping her feet.

As I carried out my task I could hear Mistress teasing me about how she was pushing the tip in, and also the sound of the dildo as it worked it’s way inside her gorgeous, wet pussy. This continued for some time, with a couple of breaks for me to suck her ‘cock’ and get it wet again for her.

The taste of her pussy on the glass dildo plus the teasing words Mistress used as I sucked it for her caused my cock to swell massively and I felt the part of the cock ring that was around my balls snap off. This isn’t unusual to be honest and I just ignored it and left it on the floor by the bed.

After a while Mistress decided I had worshipped her beautiful feet sufficiently and told me to get up on the bed on my hands and knees. She told me it was time for me to have something up my ass, and squirted some lube between my cheeks then pressed a glass butt plug into my eager hole.

Then Mistress had me turn over, tied me down to the bed and stood over me, fucking herself with her glass dildo. She made me suck it once more, before straddling my face and allowing me to lick her delicious pussy. Then she moved down the bed and allowed just an inch of my cock inside her, then lifted off and started stroking it.

She turned around and stood over me again, offering me the perfect view of her amazing ass and stretched pussy. I wanted to lick both, but unusually so early in a session, Mistress allowed me to beg to lick her ass. I didn’t really think she would let me, but she did (briefly) while she pumped my cock.

Mistress straddled my cock again and then offered me another chance to lick her asshole. Only this time I had a choice, I could lick it for five seconds with no blindfold, or ten seconds blindfolded (and having my cock stroked). Well, obviously I chose the second option.

Time was flying by and Mistress told me she was leaving me alone for a short while. She attached pegs to my nipples and pushed the butt plug back in again (it kept falling out) and then left me to stew awhile.

When she returned she removed the butt plug and untied me, then told me to turn over. She got on the bed behind me and I felt her strap-on pressing between my cheeks and sliding into my ass. After the initial resistance it slid home quite easily and Mistress started slapping my ass and then whipping it with her cock whip as she fucked me.

I’ve said before that I find anal can be very hit and miss, sometimes it can be great and sometimes not so much. It was clear from the fact that my butt plug kept falling out that my ass was nicely prepared and that made this time very enjoyable. Mistress fucked me for a little while, stopping now and again to stroke my (half hard) cock, then pulled out and told me to turn over again. She removed the blindfold and knelt over me, then told me to kiss her cock.

I pushed my head forward and kissed the head of her rubber cock, and then she told me to do it again. I felt the cock push past my lips and fuck my mouth for a moment, before she told me to kneel up and take my cock ring off.

Then Mistress lay back on the bed with her legs spread and told me to lick her pussy. As usual she looked super-hot, with her red lipstick and key pendant, not to mention her PVC top. I took my time, worshipping her gorgeous pussy until I was rewarded with a huge orgasm. Mistress’s legs jerked way up and landed over my shoulders as I continued to lick her as she spasmed hard.

Eventually Mistress pushed me back and I sucked and licked my fingers clean of every drop of delicious pussy juice. Mistress stood on the bed in front of me, leaning forward, and told me to clean her. I eagerly lapped up every last drop of her juices from her smooth skin and then did the same for the PVC sheet beneath her.

Mistress ordered me onto my back one last time, before allowing me to lick her ass once more, her nails digging into my poor throbbing cock as she told me that she wasn’t going to let me cum today, and that I was going to have to wait a little bit longer…

You Know That Feeling When it's SO HARD!

Well after my moany post earlier, I’m happy to report that a couple of hours ago Mistress R had a lovely big orgasm on my tongue, and I didn’t cough once! 

Afterwards Mistress set about teasing my poor cock and teased, stroked and slapped my cock and balls so well…. my cock was so hard, when she slapped it there was just no give in it at all, it was awesome. I wish it was that hard all the time… or maybe not ‘all’ the time, that would be impractical.  But you know what I mean.

As Mistress was bringing me closer and closer to the edge I was fantasizing about being allowed to cum on her gorgeous ass and licking it up. Near the end Mistress moved up the bed to kiss me and I told her how much I wanted to lick my cum off her body. She said ‘Maybe you’ll be allowed to soon…’. I really hope so.

After calling a halt I was cuddling her with my rock hard cock squeezed against her and my finger tips gently teasing her ass. I decided to try my luck and begged to be allowed to worship her ass. I didn’t expect her to touch my cock again as she’d already told me my teasing was over, I just really wanted to lick her beautiful ass, but Mistress was kind enough to stroke my aching cock as she allowed me to (briefly) worship her ass.

I’d really love for Mistress to start thinking about ass worship in the same way she thinks about foot worship, in that it doesn’t have to be part of ‘sex’, but it can be a way for me to show my devotion to her whenever she wants me to. I doubt it would become a daily occurrence like foot worship has, but it would be nice sometimes to do it unexpectedly, like before we go to sleep…

A Little Holiday...

Mistress and I are on a little holiday this week, well I guess we were as it’s just finished! Mistress was off the whole week but I had to work Monday and Tuesday, I can’t believe it’s Friday night already. We were very late up this morning though, which means today has flown by… still, we’ve got a nice meal out to look forward to and more importantly Mistress has just enjoyed another orgasm on my tongue. 

Last night I was so fucking horny it was unbelievable. I mean, you’d think that being allowed to cum would have reset my horny level to nought wouldn’t you… but it doesn’t seem to work like that anymore. Last night when Mistress came to bed I wanted to cum so bad, my cock was throbbing like crazy but no matter how passionately I kissed her she wouldn’t give my cock more than a fleeting touch… then she turned over, reached behind her and guided my poor throbbing cock towards her ass. It was absolute torture. I stood it for a short while and then had to turn over myself and try to get to sleep.

Being allowed to look at Mistress’s gorgeous asshole while I was fucking her yesterday has made me want to lick her ass so badly. I really hoped she would sit on my face today and have me lick her beautiful ass, but she didn’t. She did tease me beautifully though, and left me rock hard and aching. Hard to believe a man can ache so much after 1 day without cumming…

I put a new picture of Mistress in my wallet today, the old picture had been in there a long time and was a bit worn out and creased. I chose a black and white one this time, it was taken in our first photo session in 2008 (I think), the old photo was a whole body shot of Mistress in her awesome PVC basque (which has sadly departed in the meantime), but this time I chose a different picture from the same session. This one is basically just a head and shoulders shot, but it’s clear Mistress is not fully dressed. She looks so beautiful in this picture, and even better in real life. I can’t imagine ever being without her.

The End of a Drought

As you’ve probably noticed I really haven’t had much to post about of late, until today Mistress hadn’t cum since last Wednesday and we seem to have been so busy what with one thing and another. Finally today we managed to get ourselves into bed in the afternoon and brought the drought to a close.

Mistress had trimmed her pussy and looked very sexy today… she stroked my cock a little as we kissed (I was kneeling between her legs) smiling as I impatiently thrust against her hand. Then as I moved down between her legs she slid her fingers between her thighs and started playing with her pussy. That was so fucking hot, I love to watch Mistress touch herself like that and my cock was throbbing like mad. She had me lick her fingers clean and then proceeded to touch herself again. I fucking loved it. After Mistress had me clean her fingers a second or third time she let me settle onto my front between her gorgeous thighs and as I gently licked her pussy I ground my cock into the mattress in utter frustration.

It took several minutes for my cock to settle down, and a while longer before I managed to bring Mistress to a climax. Eight days feels like forever and I felt so happy when Mistress suddenly bucked against my tongue. 

Almost immediately Mistress reached down and pulled me up between her legs again and started stroking my half hard cock. We kissed again as she got me hard and then she fed my length into her wet pussy. Unlike last time I felt a bit more in control, and managed to hold back quite well. At first I had Mistress’s legs up in the air and I kissed the soles of her beautiful feet as I slid in and out of her, and then Mistress opened her legs and I moved forward so that we could kiss as I fucked her. Mistress asked me ‘if I like being inside her when she’s just cum, my cock getting coated and totally soaked in her pussy juices’…

After a while Mistress asked if I wanted her to turn over so that I could see her ass. To be honest I was just starting to feel like I was losing the battle to hold back, but even though I knew it would make it harder I said yes. Mistress was quickly on her side and I parted her cheeks so that I could gaze at her gorgeous asshole as I fucked her pussy. I could only look for a few seconds at a time before I had to look away, as it just made me want to cum.

Eventually I told Mistress that I was getting close and she told me that she wanted me to cum inside her. I quickly sped up and started fucking her hard and fast, it felt fucking amazing being inside her wonderful, wet pussy and it wasn’t long before I was filling her up with 20 days of cum.

Afterwards Mistress knelt on the bed and I lay on my back and slid underneath her, licking her pussy clean while she milked a few drops of cum from my cock. What an awesome way to spend a wet Thursday afternoon. 

Saturday Afternoon...

Last night I surprised Mistress R with a candlelit dinner at home, but before that we spent a lovely hour in bed together. After spending a while between Mistress’s gorgeous thighs and being rewarded by the sensation of feeling cumming hard against my tongue, I moved down the bed to kiss and suck on Mistress’s beautiful feet and toes.

Once Mistress had recovered she had me lay next to her so that she could start stroking my cock, which was quickly hard, and then I felt the warmth of her mouth closing around my cock. Mistress sucked, slapped and jerked me for a while, before straddling me… initially I thought she was going to simply sink down on my hard cock, but instead she positioned herself over my face so that I could lick her still soaking wet pussy.

She tasted soooo delicious, but then after a few seconds she moved back down my body and slid herself onto my throbbing cock. As ever Mistress was wearing her bra and I had to ask her to remove it, which she did, exposing her gorgeous breasts and really hard nipples (so fucking sexy!). Mistress bent forward and had me suck on them as she rode my cock, but all too soon the bra was back  and then before I knew it Mistress was sliding up my body and my tongue was inside her pussy again, now tasting of my cock as well as her own juices, while my slippery cock twitched behind her.

Mistress moved back beside me and stroked my cock a little more, before leaving me throbbing and desperate once again. After a little begging Mistress stroked me a few more times, and then allowed me to taste her perfect pussy one last time. 

Saturday afternoons don’t get much better than that.

Did I Just Initiate Penetration?

I think I maybe did. Mistress and I were out late last night and this morning we were both in bed still around 8:30 (which is pretty unusual for us). Mistress got up to pee and as I lay in bed with my cock feeling VERY hard I imagined her calling me… ‘Slave, come here and lick me clean’.

That’s probably never going to happen of course, but for some reason the thought popped into my head and made my cock throb even harder. When she came back to bed the sight of her gorgeous naked body only made it worse and soon she was stroking my cock and teasing me while I played with her beautiful breasts.

Well things progressed and Mistress threw her leg over me and started rubbing my cock against her pussy, but at this stage I still felt this was just to tease me. However, it wasn’t long before I had my fingers inside her and then she pulled me on top of her and inside her.

It felt so good watching Mistress laying squeezing her gorgeous tits as I slid in and out of her. I lifted her legs up and started kissing her feet as I fucked her, but all too soon I could feel myself getting a bit close for comfort.

I tried to push it back but it was not having it, and I warned Mistress that I was getting close, unsure of how she would respond. She asked me if I wanted to be allowed to cum inside her, and while I guess the answer should have been ‘whatever pleases you Mistress’, this time it all felt a bit different… I felt like I had initiated this so I wasn’t sure what I was ‘supposed’ to do next.

I told her that I did want to and Mistress told me to cum inside her. I was already close and the second I started to fuck her harder I could feel my cum spurting inside her. Even when I was done Mistress’s pussy was still squeezing my cock and even though it felt wonderful to cum inside her I did feel a slight a pang of regret that it had been over so quickly.

We were debating whether to have our Femdom session tomorrow, but that’s kind of off the table now, I can’t imagine doing a session having cum the day before, we’ve never done that… and it would be weird not feeling at least a little desperate to cum.

Mistress obviously enjoyed our fun this morning, and she’s not really one to hold me to any ‘rules’, even rules that she made and we’ve stuck by for nearly five years. I guess she could easily have stopped me at any point (and she has before), and she obviously wanted me inside her, but I still can’t help but feel that I pushed it from a simple teasing to full sex.

I guess when we do have our Femdom session, Mistress has something concrete to punish me for if she chooses to do so, and that makes four orgasms for me this month, which is the most I’ve had since April 2011 (our very first month of full time chastity).

I wonder where things will progress now, it feels like we’ve deviated from our chosen path, although that’s not strictly true as ‘the path’ was always that Mistress could give me as many orgasms as she wanted… it’s just that up until now she’s tended to keep it to one or two a month.

Obviously I’m not upset about it or anything, I wanted Mistress to control my orgasms and I’m happy for here to allow me as many as she wants. If she wanted to make me cum ten times in a month, or not at all, as long as she decides what she wants then I’m happy.

EDIT: It’s at times like these that I kind of wonder if blogging is a good thing, because when I read this it could easily be misinterpreted. But when I blog on here I can’t help but filter my thoughts through the ‘chastity’femdom’ mindset, I hope Mistress R understands that when (if) she reads it.

EDIT 2: Actually, having thought about this some more, maybe Mistress wanted my cock inside her all along, maybe rubbing my cock against her pussy was her giving me the green light and what I took to be me initiating penetration was nothing of the sort???

Expect the Unexpected...

This afternoon Mistress allowed me to cum once again, making it the third time this month. The last time I came three times in a month was last September, by the way… and I’ve now had 11 orgasms since April 1st 2015, which means (with 5 months to go) I’m extremely unlikely to have less orgasms this orgasm year than last… but I guess it could happen. Maybe Mistress needs to start ruining me and restricting me to bi-monthly orgasms!

After making her cum, Mistress stroked my cock a while before straddling me and riding my cock. For once she wasn’t wearing her bra and I was able to see and feel her gorgeous breasts as she rode me. I was starting to wonder if Mistress was going to allow me to cum inside her, but unexpectedly she got off me and turned around, standing over me I could see her beautiful stretched pussy, that was so very HOT!. Mistress pulled her ass cheeks apart and asked me if there was anything I wanted to ask her.

After a little begging, Mistress allowed me to lick her ass a while, stroking me quite hard and fast until I had to warn her that I was getting close. Then she slowed right down and allowed me to back a little way from the edge. Then she asked if I wanted to lick her ass again, and made me beg for it once more.

It wasn’t long before Mistress had me on edge again and this time when I warned her Mistress said that she was going to let me cum, but only if I could cum before she counted to ten. I think I started cumming around 6. It was a slightly odd orgasm, as it was quite intense but for whatever reason my cum wasn’t spurting that much. Part way through I jerked really hard and knocked Mistress a little off balance, which meant she let go of my cock. Then after a few seconds she grabbed it again and jerked it really hard which was really intense and thankfully she didn’t keep that up too long. Then Mistress gathered a large glob of cum on her fingers and fed it to me to swallow.

Pondering the Vanilla...

As quite often these days, it is reading other people’s blogs which inspires me to write posts for my own. This time it’s ‘I’m-Hers’ who has sparked my interest with a post about something I’m sure that I’ve pondered before on here. The question: ‘could we back to a normal vanilla relationship, or is it too late?’.

It’s an interesting and well written (as always) post, but the (22) comments are just as interesting and well worth a read. I noticed our good friend Sub-Hub making some interesting comments and it was one of his comments that actually really made me put finger to keyboard here….

I’m Her’s situation is a bit different to mine and Mistress R’s, theirs is more of a Wife Led Marriage where ours… isn’t that at all. Mistress R controls my orgasms and pleasure but she doesn’t give me chores (except cleaning the bathroom in my frilly panties of course…. no wait that’s a joke  ) or assume control of my salary. Nor is that something either of us wants.

So actually, in our case I do think that it wouldn’t be that difficult to go back. I mean it would take a little time to get used to things but, really we haven’t strayed all that far from the ‘norm’.

The comment made by Sub Hub which caught my attention was where he mentioned that he and Mistress K discussed their relationship and what the other would look for in a future partner in the case of one or other of them’s unfortunate demise.

Mistress K apparently wouldn’t want another submissive husband, feeling that their relationship is unique to them, whereas Sub Hub said he ‘paused long enough for her to assume that he would want another ‘Mistress’.

I can relate to that.

As much as Mistress R loves controlling my cock and getting as many orgasms as she wants, whenever she wants… all this ‘stuff’ originated from me and I honestly don’t think that if I were to die young (probably a bit late for that really!) she would be looking for a submissive-type replacement.

I’m pretty sure that if I was to have another relationship (and I’m not entirely sure I would, even though I am an awesome catch  ), if I did then I probably would want someone who I could see as a Mistress, though I have no idea how or how soon I would go about it… or whether I would feel comfortable going through the various steps to make it happen again.

On the other hand, if you don’t try you will never get anywhere (if only I was as ambitious in everyday life!), and you can’t make an omelette without breaking eggs. Breaking those eggs wasn’t the easiest of experiences… would I really want to do that again? Not entirely sure. It’s a chicken and egg situation isn’t it, I guess if I couldn’t broach it then that to me would suggest that I wasn’t comfortable enough with that person to spend the rest of my life with them…

What would be interesting would be to see how Mistress R fared with a normal bloke after being ‘in charge’ for so long? Maybe she would like having a more ‘dominant’ partner, but I wonder how long for? She certainly doesn’t seem to show any signs of willingness as far as giving up her current role…

You can read I’m Her’s post HERE

The Age of Consent...

I have been meaning to write a post on this subject for a long time, I even thought I had, but a search comes up with nothing. So…

Two stories in the news this week, firstly a girl aged twelve will become the youngest British Mother shortly, while the father (a 19 year old) faces life in prison (life doesn’t mean that in the UK, probably 15 years max). Secondly, good old Kim Kardashian has revealed that she lost her virginity at 14 to her then boyfriend Tito Jackson.

I don’t know the laws in the United States and it’s more complicated because each state seems to have it’s own law and specifics. But as far as I can tell the age of consent in the USA in general is 16, some states seemingly shy away from calling it rape if there’s less than two years difference and one is younger than 16.

Now obviously nobody can seriously think that a child of 12 having sex with a 19 year old is a good thing, because obviously it’s not, but one thing that struck me about that was that if you look at the law in Europe, while a lot of countries use the 16, 17 age as the standard, Germany has an age of consent of 14. Not only that but the law further states that the age of consent is 14 as long as the older person is not over 21. So, bizarrely, if there was a couple where the guy was 20 and the girl was 14, that would be okay, but as soon as the guy turned 21 he would have to wait for the girl to turn 16 to have sex with her again.

Hmm… Can’t see any potential problems there. Perhaps if it can be shown that the couple were together before (and legal) it would mitigate somehow…? It does seem a bit strange though that it’s legal for a 20 year old man to have sex with a fourteen year old.

I’m actually really surprised that given the European Union’s desire for ever closer ties and common regulation that there hasn’t been a move to standardise the age of consent throughout Europe. Currently 14 of the European countries have 14 as the age of consent, twelve have 15, twenty one have 16, two have 17 and three have 18.

I don’t see a standard age coming in, since would it come down in Malta (currently 18), or up in Italy (currently 14)? Presumably Malta and Vatican City aren’t going to agree to a drop of 4 years, and while it seems almost logical for the age of consent to be 16 (although that could just be because it’s always been 16 here) would France agree to putting their age of consent up a year?

Incidentally,there has been a move to reduce the age of consent in the UK (to 14) as recently as 2013, there seems little support for such a change here. It wasn’t that long ago that the homosexual age of consent was reduced to 16 from 18 (from 21 not that long before), which was because a case was taken to the European court which decided that it was discriminatory to have two age of consents, for homosexuals and heterosexuals. That being the case I see even less likelihood of the age of consent being dropped here.

Law’s being country dependent, I assume if a 19yr old guy from the UK went to Germany with his 14 year old girlfriend and they had sex I presume nothing could be done about that? I can’t see how it’s any different than the 19yr old guy going to Germany and having sex with a 14 year old German girl, or a 14 year old girl going to Germany and having sex with a 19yr old German guy (you can switch the girls and guys around too in this example).

It’s all very complicated.

I lost my virginity at 18, to a 20 year old girl (so I missed out on sex with teenage girls altogether!), I was a pretty mature kid, but in all honesty I think eighteen was about right. 16 would have been too young for me I think and 14 would definitely have been too young. And like I said, I was a mature kid. So I certainly don’t think dropping the 16 A.O.C. is a good idea.

I suppose it’s further complicated by the fact that people like Kim Kardashian can now say they lost their virginity at 14 and really is there any public interest in addressing this? It’s happening all the time here in the UK, I know a women I worked with until recently told me that she knew her grandson (15) is sleeping with his girlfriend. But what is the point of addressing this legally?

There’s seems to be a pragmatic point of view which says, well you can’t stop it, the best thing to do is to make sure they use condoms / contraceptives. Which is sensible, but a rather odd attitude to laws. If you applied that logic to everything, then we’d been in a right mess. You can’t legally ride a motorcycle until you’re 16, but you can’t stop a fourteen from doing it so just make sure they wear a helmet…

So what’s the point of having a law then. Well obviously there has to be a law, and given that the age of consent is 16, but it’s sort of accepted that 14 and 15 year old’s will probably flout it, then if you reduce the age of consent to 14, do you then accept that 12 year old will flout it? Obviously not. I can see the logic of the argument for lowering the age of consent, but the people wanting to do so, are probably doing it with the mindset of an adult thinking that we drop the age and decriminalise the act for people that are already doing it, but then there will be no leeway.

Who would be a law-maker?

What a Night!

I knew Mistress wanted me to make her cum tonight, but I had no idea how great things would turn out. First of all, Mistress had a really, really hard orgasm, which was so amazing to be a part of… I just love it when she cums like that. 

Afterwards she had me kneel between her open legs so that she could touch my cock while we kissed. It didn’t take long before I was nice and hard and as I knelt there kissing my beautiful Mistress I hoped that she was going to let me inside her. Funny, earlier in the day I was thinking about how it had been a while since I’d been allowed ‘on top’…

Mistress wrapped her legs around me and pulled me inside her silky, wet pussy, which felt just incredible. I love being inside her after she has cum because her pussy feels so different, so slick and sexy. Mmmm!

After a while Mistress told me to stop with my cock inside her. That was a first. It almost felt like she was enjoying ‘playing’ with me, probably knowing how bad I wanted to continue sliding back and forth, but just making me stay still with my cock throbbing inside her. She kissed me for a little while and then told me she wanted me to be inside her, but she wanted me to be able to see her ass.

I was quite surprised about this because Mistress knows damn well that her ass is a bit of a trigger for me. Soon she was laying on her side with my cock deep inside her beautiful pussy, while I resisted the urge to spread her ass cheeks and enjoy the sight of her asshole, right next to my cock… her pussy lips stretched around me. Mmmm.

Yeah, so that didn’t last long… and after a short while I started thrusting a little harder and faster, stopping briefly to enjoy the sight of Mistress’s asshole a few times… Mistress was obviously enjoying this immensely, as was I!

Inevitably, I started to get close and looking down at Mistress’s delicious ass wasn’t helping one bit. I really didn’t expect her to let me cum, but even as I stopped inside her, Mistress was pushing back against my cock. I told her I was close and she told me what she really wanted was for me to cum all over her ass and to lick it all up.

I was more than a little surprised, but I quickly responded, slamming my cock into her a few more times before pulling it out and jerking it over her ass and between her cheeks. I could not believe how much cum I had produced in five days, it was incredible. Still, obedient as ever, as soon as I finished cumming I slid down and started licking the copious mess off of Mistress’s ass while she moaned her pleasure. She seemed to be really enjoying it, which was really hot! 

I kept licking for quite a while, swallowing every drop and licking Mistress’s asshole a little, just to make sure it was thoroughly cleaned.

Afterwards I asked Mistress if it was an early birthday present, she said – Maybe, or a late anniversary present! Either way it was totally amazing, what a night!

Accidental P.O.T....?

Last Monday Mistress and I finally made something happen, she had a lovely orgasm and I was teased and left hard and aching. But annoyingly our joy was short-lived as Mistress period also started on Monday, so it’s taken until today for us to add to our tally.

Yesterday was our wedding anniversary, our 22nd. Which is crazy, but we got married young I guess, certainly younger than most people get married these days. Mistress doesn’t work on Friday’s but I do, so when I woke up with my alarm I had to get up, but not before Mistress gave my aching cock a few strokes… if only every morning started that way.

In the evening we had booked a table at a local restaurant, and it was pretty fantastic. The steak was so tender and cooked perfectly and we each had a delicious caramel shortbread pudding. Yeah, so much for the diet!

We were both absolutely stuffed when we got home, but it was that weird full feeling you get when you haven’t really eaten that much (volume) but it’s ‘rich’ food. We were both pretty tired anyway, it’s been a long week at work and I’m still feeling a bit crap from my eye infection / tonsilitis.

So, today we went to bed in the afternoon and Mistress was obviously ready to be taken care of, having only had one orgasm in the last two weeks (which is pretty much unheard of for her these days).

Mistress had a lovely orgasm and then she set about teasing my cock, sucking and slapping my cock and balls while allowing me to stroke her asshole with my fingertips. I really wanted to ask her to let me lick her ass, but I think I would have cum really quick, so I decided not to ask… kind of frustrating really, but still.

Mistress was really stroking me pretty hard and fast and stopping each time she sensed I was getting close. This went on for a while before finally I had to warn her that I was getting close. She quickly got up on her knees and straddled me, sliding down onto my poor, throbbing cock.

“Do you want to be allowed to cum inside me?” She asked.

Hmm, let me think about that for a minute. Mistress removed her bra while I thought about it…

“If it pleases you Mistress,” I said, hoping it was going to please her and pretty sure it would.

Mistress told me she was going to let me cum inside her and started riding my cock hard, it took barely half a dozen strokes before I could feel myself cumming inside her. And barely three or four more before she was lifting herself off and straddling my face with her cum filled pussy.

Strangely, it was almost like a ruined orgasm, because once she lifted off I could feel my cock still hard, pulsing but no more cum was erupting from it. Albeit there was already a fair amount in my mouth at this point…

After a few moment’s Mistress lifted off my face and noticing my still hard cock she grabbed it and began stroking it firmly. But by this time my cock was feeling pretty damned sensitive, so it was all I could do to remain still as she pumped the remaining cum out of my cock, onto her fingers and finally into my mouth.

I’m not sure that Mistress realised what she did (Post Orgasm Torture), but she had a big smile on her face, and that’s good enough for me.

Hopefully October will be kinder to us and I will have more to blog about, thank you for your patience.

FEMDOM SESSION 21st September 2015

Mistress and I are on holiday this week, so we decided to move our session from it’s traditional Sunday morning slot to Monday. What better way to celebrate not going to work than having a session?

Again I managed to keep my hands off my cock the whole month, and I haven’t missed a single towel duty either, so Mistress had very little to punish me for. She told me that she was going to give me a little punishment spanking anyway just to keep me in order.

I embellished this a little in my own head I must admit… I imagined her saying ‘You haven’t given me a reason to punish you slave, but I’m going to anyway, because I can… and because I like it!’.

Mistress gave me about ten or eleven strokes of the cat before having me kneel up on the floor at the foot of the bed. She grabbed the glass dildo off the bedside table and immediately told me to suck it and get it wet for her. As I concentrated on worshipping her gorgeous feet Mistress toyed her pussy, until I could her the lovely sound of the glass cock penetrating her.

As ever I was instructed to keep my eyes down, which was difficult, but for the last little bit Mistress allowed me to look up and watch her sliding the dildo into her pussy. She had me lick the dildo clean and then had me up on the bed, face up and tied me to the four corners.

It wasn’t long before Mistress was straddling my face and riding my tongue. She had instructed me to wear my Oxballs and my cock was soon hard as I enjoyed her taste and smell overwhelming me. Then she moved down the bed and started using my cock for her own pleasure, riding it as she pleased, before standing up over my head and allowing me to look up at her beautiful pussy and ass while she stroked and slapped my cock and balls.

The session seemed to go incredibly quickly and in no time Mistress had the glass butt plug inside me and the pegs on my nipples, and I was left alone for a short time. Almost as soon as she left the Oxballs really started to sting, but I managed to endure it for the next few minutes without too much trouble.

When Mistress came back she untied me and had me on my hands and knees with the glass butt plug / dildo still in my ass. She hand spanked me a few times and fucked my ass a little with the dildo, which was quite nice, and while it was disappointingly brief, it was nice to get the Oxballs off!

Then it was time for me to worship Mistress’s beautiful pussy properly. 

She had a very intense orgasm and then stood up leaving the PVC sheet spattered with pussy juice. As she stood over me more pussy juice dripped out of her and pooled on the sheet, which was so hot! She turned around and then had me lick the backs of her legs and ass clean, before instructing me to clean the sheet with my tongue. I don’t think I’ve ever swallowed so much gorgeous pussy juice at one time, it was AWESOME! 

After this Mistress had me turn over again and then stood over me once again, stroking my cock until it was nice and hard, then making me beg to lick her ass. She let me lick her ass three times, making me beg between each one, but I was still disappointed when she finally stood up and told me the session was over, I would have loved to lick her ass for a lot longer.

Ah well, I guess that’s how these sessions are supposed to end, with a satisfied Mistress and a slave desperate for more. 

It's Been a Long Time Coming...

Mistress somewhat surprised me tonight, by allowing my first ruined orgasm since January!

After coming hard on my tongue, Mistress soon had me hard and was slapping and stroking me quite vigorously. I gently teased her ass with my fingertips as I often do, and soon I was feeling quite close.

The first couple of times Mistress changed tack, slowing down the strokes and sucking my cock hard, often using her teeth as well. At some point Mistress moved up the bed and started kissing me while she continued stroking my throbbing cock, the taste of cock on her mouth made my cock throb even harder than before and after a few moments of that Mistress started stroking my cock even harder.

Fairly soon I had to warn Mistress that I was getting close and fully expected her to slow down or stop, but instead Mistress continued stroking hard and fast while looking straight at me, almost daring me to cum without permission. Meanwhile, I was trying to hold back, and repeated my warning that I was getting close.

“You may cum,” said Mistress finally, continuing to stroke my cock but getting slightly slower.

It never occurred to me until this point that maybe Mistress might be about to ruin my orgasm, and sure enough Mistress timed her strokes to perfection. Stopping… then giving me one more stroke which pushed me JUST over the edge.

It felt like Mistress had built up so much pressure in my cock, that what could have been an epic eruption, instead turned into a perfectly ruined orgasm. I couldn’t believe quite how much cum was expelled and how little pleasure I was able to feel from it. Considering Mistress almost never ruins my orgasms, she sure has a knack for doing it!

It was different to all the other ruined orgasms Mistress has granted me so far, in that in the past I haven’t felt so ‘ready to explode’ beforehand. Indeed as my cum dripped out of my cock I could feel my hole body tensing up as if was cumming, almost trying to force my orgasm to materialise, but to no avail.

It was certainly frustrating, but I really love that Mistress did it, especially after so long. 

A Lovely Teasing for Me!

Last night I was sitting on the sofa minding my own business when Mistress R come over to me and knelt between my legs. I wasn’t feeling that good at the time, and I wasn’t really in the mood to be teased… but it seemed my cock had other ideas. Mistress kissed me briefly and when she pulled away my cock was rock hard.

Mistress teased it with a finger, and I said… ‘Well maybe it would be okay then.’

Mistress soon had my cock out and knelt there sucking me, I can’t even remember the last time she knelt on the floor in front of me sucking my cock. I remember it used to happen a lot more often before chastity, well a bit more… but then that used to end with me either cumming in her mouth or over myself…

Mistress instructed me to open my eyes and watch her sucking my cock, it was hard not to imagine standing up and fucking her mouth, but of course, that was never going to happen! Mistress started slapping my cock and then sucked it some more. It felt wonderful and made me completely forget about the pain in my stomach.

After a while Mistress stood up and declared the end of my teasing, she leaned forward and we shared a lovely cock and wine flavoured kiss… 

Sadly the plan was for me to worship Mistress’s beautiful pussy this morning, but that didn’t happen, it will probably be tomorrow night now.