That Was A Huge Mouthful of Cum!

Today, rather unexpectedly, my latest chastity period came to an end. It was thirty six days since my last orgasm and as I said yesterday I was interested to see if Mistress would let me cum again before the new year started.

With the Christmas shenanigans it had been five days since Mistress’s last orgasm, and it was lovely to reacquaint myself with Mistress’s gorgeous pussy. After she came she set about teasing my cock for a while, before straddling me and riding my aching cock. Feeling surprisingly in control, I decided that I could handle seeing her beautiful breasts and begged Mistress to take her bra off for me.


Mistress looked so amazing riding my cock and she bent forward so that I could suck on her hard nipples. Then she moved up and straddled my face (oh I love that), before sinking down on my cock once again. She rode me for a little while longer and then lifted off and reached back to stroke my cock hard and fast. It was clear she was trying to force me to the edge, and when I warned her that I was getting close she turned around and offered her ass to my tongue.
Mistress continued to stroke me hard and after asking permission to tongue her lovely ass and also being told that I was allowed to cum, I was pumped hard to an intense orgasm as I tongued Mistress’s gorgeous asshole.


It was an incredibly long orgasm, and I became super-sensitive really quickly, which again resulted in some (presumably???) unintentional post orgasm torture… then Mistress had me lick her fingers clean and I swallowed what seriously felt like a tablespoon of cum! Still I guess thirty six days is quite a while.


Now of course I have something of a dilemma. I have a voucher where I can ask to cum any time in January, but of course that means that even if I use it at the last possible moment I can only get a maximum of thirty five days, so would the smart thing to do be to use the voucher on the 1st?
Hmm, tricky…

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It’s been a busy weekend, yesterday a friend and I drove 135 miles each way to see Combichrist in Bristol and today Mistress and I had a family dinner to attend. Knowing what a great mood that always puts us in… we decided to make the most of Saturday morning.

Mistress had trimmed her pussy lovely and short for me and she said afterwards that it sometimes makes her more sensitive, even a bit over sensitive. Everything was going as normal until she started to cum and after an initial spasm she seemed to fall away from the edge and as I continued to lick her she seemed to have almost three or four mini orgasms one after another, she said it was still lovely but just felt a bit odd…

Afterwards Mistress started teasing my cock as I played with her ass, for once she had come to bed without her bra so I was treated to the sight of her gorgeous naked breasts. After a while, sucking and slapping my cock, Mistress straddled me and rode my cock for sometime while I took in the sight of her nakedness. She looked so hot riding my cock, and then she sat on my face and let me lick her pussy some more. Mmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Then Mistress stood over me and made me beg her to let me lick her asshole. Mistress allowed me to let me tongue her hole three times, and for a little while each time (probably the most prolonged ass worship in a long time), though of course it’s never long enough for me. All the time Mistress was stroking my cock and I really had to disengage myself mentally from what she was doing to my cock otherwise I would have had to have warned her that I was close and I’m sure that was what she was aiming for and I’m equally sure that would have been the end of the ass worship too!

Considering how long it is now since I’ve cum I thought I did pretty damn well to hold back, it’s fucking difficult when your tongue is pressed right into your Mistress’s tight ass to not just explode everywhere as I’m sure some of you will attest.

It looks like we’ve timed things fairly well as it seems that Mistress is probably going to start her period tomorrow, which hopefully means that we will be able to have our next Femdom session next Saturday morning. 

FEMDOM SESSION 7th Dec 2014

Mistress and I were really rather shocked to realize that our last Femdom session took place in September. There have been numerous reasons for this, tiredness, illness, unexpected periods, but also the longer it is since the last session the more it feels like it needs to be perfect, and so the slightest thing makes it feel like – oh it will be better if we wait until next week.

This is largely my fault and so from now on we have decided that in future Mistress R will decide on a date and unless there is a very good reason to postpone, then that is when our sessions will happen. It seems fitting that Mistress should be the one to decide… and even as I’m typing this I can imagine some of you being appalled that this was ever even an issue. I agree, at least in hindsight, it does seem rather a no-brainer that Mistress should decide this.

I have also discussed this point further with Mistress and in future she will be ‘informing’ me (as opposed to ‘asking’ me) when she wants me to worship her pussy and tease my cock. I think this is a positive step forward and an entirely logical extension of the rules we already have in place.

But anyway, back to today… it’s 9:10am and Mistress is still in bed. We had a late night last night, well I was in bed by 12:30am and when Mistress came to bed at 1:45am my cock was fucking throbbing. I did finish reading ‘Discovering My Nasty Wife’ (as discussed the other week) before I went to sleep, which probably didn’t help, but still…I cuddled up to her and Mistress felt my cock pressing into her ass…

“Have you been thinking about tomorrow?” She asked.

Too bloody right I had been! I begged her to touch my cock, I was so fucking horny and ready to explode, I felt like I would have done anything for her right then. She reached back and curled her fingers around it and just held it. Talk about frustrating! Then she let go and said ‘You’ll have to wait for tomorrow’.

I cuddled her a while longer, kissing her shoulders and breathing heavily as my cock pulsed in absolute frustration, until she told me to go to sleep. I turned over and my cock continued to ache and was still throbbing this morning when I woke up… Thankfully that level of desperation had rather diminished overnight, but I was still eager for our session to start…

It’s now 4:30pm and Mistress and I are chilling out for a bit before getting ready to drive out to a concert in Birmingham later (At the Gates / Triptykon if you’re interested…. Very Metal!). The session was wonderful, but seemed to flash by so quickly. Since the colder weather has descended on us, Mistress has been less eager for extended foot worship (since we aren’t the kind of people who sit in an overheated house in our shorts), so that made worshipping her beautiful feet for a good ten minutes or more a real treat, especially since I could hear Mistress using her glass dildo on her pussy too (unfortunately I couldn’t see because I was blindfolded, although even if I hadn’t been no doubt Mistress would have told me to keep my eyes on her pretty feet).

Prior to that Mistress had quizzed me over my adherence to her rules over the last ten weeks, considering I had to confess to touching my cock and edging myself more times than I could remember (plus there was a few nights when I forgot to kiss her feet and a few days when I neglected to fold her towels before I went to work) I think I got away very lightly. . I was whipped and paddled eleven times each, and Mistress sneakily distracted me by stroking my cock a couple of times and then whacking me when I wasn’t expecting it.

Even though the paddle in particular stung like hell I was half expecting her to warn me to expect more later in the session, but it seems I got away with it. She also asked me if I had ever made myself cum without permission since we had started chastity, and was pleased when I assured her that I hadn’t. Mistress then asked me if I was still happy to be under her control and for her decide when I get to cum, and for her to decide what happens to my cock, balls and ass, and how and when they are used. Hearing her say these things brought it home to me how much I have missed our sessions, and my cock was rock hard inside my Cocksling.

After the foot worship and the first taste of Mistress’s beautiful pussy (she had me clean and lubricate her dildo with my mouth a couple of times between kissing her feet), Mistress tied me down on my back and straddled my face. It felt so good to have her right on top of me again, it seems ages since Mistress had straddled me like that, and I love having her right on top of me and being completely smothered by her gorgeous pussy. Mistress teased me with her ass too, telling me that if I was good and pleased her well, she might allow me to lick it later.

This part of the session seemed to pass by soooo quickly, Mistress stroked my cock and straddled my face a few times, she also sat on my cock briefly and then had me lick her pussy again so that I could taste my cock on her pussy too. Mmmmm… Then Mistress lubed up my ass and stroked my cock as she inserted the glass ring ended dildo. I have really missed that feeling of having my cock stroked while my ass is being fucked, it’s a pity it didn’t last very long…

At some point Mistress had removed my blindfold and I watched as she attached pegs to my nipples (which seemed to hurt more than I remembered) and looked down at my throbbing cock (still in the Oxballs Cocksling, which worked perfectly today – no stinging whatsoever). Then I was left alone for five minutes or so and when Mistress returned she smiled at me as she plucked the pegs from my nipples (ouch!), untied me and told me to kneel up and remove my Cocksling.

She lay on the bed in front of me and told me she wanted me to worship her pussy until she came, using my tongue and fingers. I slid down onto the bed and gently started to lick her pussy, and for a while I was wondering if it was going to work as for some reason it just didn’t seem to be coming together. But after a while Mistress’s muscles started to tense up, but instead of releasing she just seemed to get more and more tense, like she was close but couldn’t quite get there. It would have been awful if having waited for this session for so long we would have had a rare failure, but thankfully I seemed to find the right rhythm at last and Mistress was obviously getting really close. 

I could tell Mistress was going to cum really hard, just so long as I could get her there… and when she finally came it was pretty spectacular. I really love it when Mistress cums like that, when your own orgasms are as few and far between as mine are, you can’t help but derive satisfaction from feeling your Mistress bucking against you as she enjoys her own freedom to cum as often as she likes. It’s bliss!

After I cleaned up Mistress, licking her juices from where they had dripped down her sexy legs, and licked all her pussy juice from the PVC sheet, I was ordered onto my back again and told me she wouldn’t tie me down again but that I wasn’t allowed to touch her with my hands. And then she stood over me and started to tease me with her gorgeous pussy and ass again. She told me she was pleased with me and that I was to be granted a reward, but that I should think carefully and not ask for too much.

Inevitably I begged to be allowed to worship her ass, at which point Mistress told me to close my eyes and sank down onto my face. As I licked her sexy asshole she stroked my cock hard and fast, before lifting off. As she lifted off I opened my eyes and Mistress looked back between her legs at me and said ‘Who said you could open your eyes?’.

I shut them again immediately, but Mistress slapped my cock anyway, before allowing me to lick her ass a second time. This time she was pushing back against the tip of tongue, literally fucking her ass with it. It was so hot, and again she stroked my cock… the third time she allowed me to open my eyes and I was struggling a little to keep control, then Mistress told me I had ten more seconds left and that I better make the most of it.

She counted down and then lifted off me and released my cock at the same time, which in one way was a relief, but obviously a disappointment too…since I never get enough of licking her gorgeous ass. Finally Mistress R stood over me and teased me with her gorgeous pussy one more time before calling the session to a halt.

I never really expected to be allowed to cum today, it’s only been sixteen days so far after all, besides today was more importantly about getting back into the swing and realising how much we missed doing this. I’m really looking forward to doing this again (hopefully before Christmas) and I think making it Mistress’s decision alone is definitely a step in the right direction.

I must say I’m looking forward to getting emails (at work) from Mistress in future telling me that I will be worshipping her pussy later… well it’s not like I’m going to object is it!

All in all it’s been a very positive day, I just wish the session had been a bit longer and that Mistress had slipped her RodeoH pants on and given my ass a good fucking. Maybe next time…

I’m still none the wiser about the fact that I didn’t lick Mistress’s pussy clean after she allowed me to cum inside her a couple of weeks ago, she didn’t mention it in the session or punish me for it, perhaps when we redraft our contract to take account of the changes we’ve made she will clarify the situation for me.

An Unexpected Ending...

Last night my latest period of chastity came to an unexpected ending. Mistress and I went to bed quite late and once there we cuddled as we often do, and as usual my cock responded to being close to Mistress’s sexy body (as you would expect, especially having not been allowed to come for 34 days). Mistress wrapped her hand around my cock and started stroking me and we kissed, something about this felt different… indeed, since we’ve started on this path, this kind of late night, spontaneous ‘sex’ (for want of a better word) has been the one thing that has all but gone by the wayside, which I must admit, I rather miss.

I gently started teasing Mistress’s freshly trimmed pussy and she responded by opening her legs wider, allowing me to gradually slip my finger inbetween her lips. Mistress told me she wanted me inside her, and I moved down the bed and positioned myself between her legs. Mistress wasn’t really as wet as she might have been, but after a couple of strokes I was fully inside her and really, we just made love like normal vanilla people do, and it was total wonderful. After a while I could feel myself getting close and I paused for a second to try and keep it together a while longer, but Mistress told me she wanted me to cum inside her, so instead I thrust into her a few more times until I could feel my long awaited orgasm approaching.


As seems customary nowadays on the rare occasions I am allowed to cum inside Mistress when on top, my left leg started to cramp just enough to distract me from fully enjoying my release. It’s like a 75% ruined orgasm… it’s not like full-scale ‘jump of the bed’ and hop around the bedroom cramp, it’s just mild, but enough to be a real pain in the arse when you’re trying to enjoy your first orgasm in nearly five weeks!


It was a very ‘vanilla’ experience and for reasons I won’t go into here something we both really needed, to make us feel close. Mistress didn’t tell me to lick her pussy afterwards, and I decided not to either. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to, just that it was a particular situation, a very vanilla situation and it didn’t seem appropriate somehow. If Mistress wants to punish me for failing to carry out my duties properly then I will accept that, our contract is a bit vague on cum eating I think, I need to look it up, I’m not sure who exactly is responsible. I know it says that I should eat my cum every time, but as far as I know it doesn’t specify whether I should take the initiative or wait to be told. Perhaps that’s the sort of thing we need to clarify.


Afterwards we both commented how strange it was to have sex in the dark, since it’s been so long since we have done so… I would have happily have gone down on Mistress, but we were both tired and Mistress elected to wait until this afternoon. On the plus side, this meant that after licking Mistress to a lovely orgasm, I got to enjoy another bout of teasing, so a bit of a win/win for me!


By the end of the teasing I wanted to cum really badly, it seems that every time I cum lately it makes me want to cum again straight away, it’s only after a few days that I settle into being denied again. You’d think it would be the other way around really, but that’s the way it seems to be at the moment anyway.

Back on Top and Teetering on the Brink...

Tonight was unexpectedly awesome, I have to say! After Mistress cumming on my tongue for the third time in four days, she quickly had me hard as we kissed… but then, just as I thought she was going to move down the bed and start teasing my cock with her mouth, instead she lay down and told me she wanted me inside her.

Oh lord, this was going to be tough. I moved between her legs and Mistress reached down and guided my cock inside her. It felt so good, but after the initial penetration I wanted more freedom of movement, so I lifted Mistress’s legs up and kissed her beautiful feet as I slid my cock in and out. I couldn’t resist the temptation to speed up a bit and to fuck my Mistress deeper, and of course this only made it harder for me, and fairly soon I was starting to have to concentrate on not cumming.


I really didn’t want to tell Mistress that I was close, because I really didn’t want her to tell me to pull out or stop, so I gradually slowed right down and tried to calm myself down. Mistress still seemed to be really enjoying it being fucked really slowly, and I was still enjoying it too, but at the same time I really couldn’t enjoy it too much or it would have been a major problem!


As ever I was fighting off cramp a bit too, which didn’t help (such a pain in the arse whenever I’m on my knees like that now), but nonetheless after a while we moved back to a more conventional ‘missionary’ position and it seemed a lot easier for me to grind my cock into Mistress’s pussy without overstimulating myself. Mistress definitely seemed to like that too.


When you really don’t get to go on top very often you really appreciate it in a way that you simply wouldn’t if you had a ‘normal’ sex life. On the face of it the desire to repeat this very hot, very intense scenario is very strong, but the one of  the reasons it was so hot and intense was at least in part because it’s a rare treat for me to be allowed on top. And I accept that.


It did feel absolutely amazing though, and I cannot believe my level of control… I truly impressed myself!  Even if it was a bit touch and go at times! Even as I was concentrating on not cumming I was imagining staying very still and effectively ruining my orgasm inside Mistress R, just as Mistress Marie has her slave do quite often (she assures me it’s totally possible!). But that would have required permission from Mistress R in any case (which I didn’t have) and in the heat of the moment I am sure it would have been most likely that Mistress would have either told me to fuck her hard and cum or she would have told me to pull out completely, neither of which I really wanted to do (although the first wouldn’t have been so bad…).


Inevitably of course, since I had got myself under control, it fell to Mistress R to call a halt when she had enjoyed my cock for as long as she wanted it, and as soon as I pulled out of her she ordered me to lie on my back. She grabbed my cock and jerked it for a few seconds, then pushed her fingers in my mouth, telling me to clean the pussy juice off of them. Then she knelt up beside me and had me lick her pussy for a few seconds before she started teasing and slapping my cock again.


As we kissed, I begged her to sit on my face so I could enjoy her pussy properly again, she agreed, but told me that after that the session would be over. My cock was throbbing as I explored her delicious pussy for the last time, and left me wondering (despite what I wrote earlier) when I will get to feel that amazing feeling of being in control again. It’s hard not to want to do that again soon, and harder still knowing it’s not up to me to decide…but still, I’m sure when Mistress does want me inside her again I’m sure it will be worth whatever wait she decides.

And Here We Go Again With the 'Is Chastity Bad for Your Health' Debate...

Browsing the comments on Literotica for part one of my ‘Once a Month’ story, I noticed a message warning of the dangers of the chastity lifestyle. It was nothing new, this crops up again and again, but I hadn’t seen it for a while. Then on the radio yesterday I heard a report about some ‘research’ that claimed men who had 20 sex partners were less likely to develop prostate cancer than those with less.

Now obviously that’s utter bollocks (and you might expect better from the BBC). There is no logical explanation why a man having 20 sex partners should make any difference to his prostate. The assumption of course is that a man who has twenty sex partners will be having lots of sex and ejaculate more frequently. Well, not if it’s 20 one night stands he won’t, for a start.

I’m-Hers probably heard something similar as he has written a short piece on his BLOGtoday too.

But he obviously heard a more in depth analysis as he has written about a further study of gay men which proves exactly the opposite, if gay men have more than 20 partners they have twice the odds of developing prostate cancer… so that’s all very helpful then!

So brushing over that nonsense, lets assume that the ‘science’ behind this is to do with toxins remaining in the body longer than ‘normal’. So why should the number of partners make any difference? Surely someone then who has just one partner but has a very vigorous sex life, or perhaps who just masturbates an awful lot would be in just as beneficial a position?

The truth is statistics can be made to say whatever the person writing them wants them to say. And talk of percentages is pretty meaningless anyway. ‘Doubling your chances of developing cancer’ doesn’t mean anything without perspective. If it’s doubling it from a 1/100,000 to 1/50,000 chance then that’s a whole lot different than doubling it from a 1/1000 to a 1/500 chance, isn’t it? 

The truth is there really hasn’t been any chastity specific studies into prostate health and since it’s hardly the top priority for the majority of the population there’s unlikely to be any anytime soon.

That alongside the extremely inconclusive findings of the studies that have been made mean that it’s really up to us to decide if we want to take the risk or not. After all, what we eat, drink and smoke all affect our health, as do any drugs we might take. It’s probably far more risky to have sex without a condom or to drive a car than it is to refrain from cumming.

We know that the food we eat affects the production of cum, because it tastes different when you eat fruit etc. So maybe there is some food which creates some toxin or other which affects the prostate? It’s probably unlikely, but we don’t actually know that that isn’t the case. Maybe all this oily fish we are supposed to eat indirectly causes prostate cancer and we just haven’t discovered it yet. Who knows.

My view, at least until there’s more conclusive evidence one way or another, is that it’s worth the risk. And of course, if it is proven to be all about clearing out the balls more often, there’s no reason we need to give up chastity, we just need to start having lots more ruined orgasms, and I don’t see that being a problem.

I’m still kind of confused about why gay men having more partners makes them more likely to develop prostate cancer though…? And who knows what other common threads there may be amongst people who have large numbers of sexual partners, maybe they socialize more and all drink a lot? Maybe that’s a good thing after all?

I realise this isn’t a subject for flippancy, believe me, but until there’s some actual proof one way or another I really don’t think it’s worth worrying too much about it.

So Fucking Good!

There are times when I question my choices, times when things aren’t gelling well, and then there are times when I know taking our marriage down this path was the best move I ever made. Tonight was very much in the latter category, much like last night actually.


I started out kissing Mistress’s beautiful feet before slowly working my way up her grapefruit scented legs to her delicious, inviting pussy. Mistress smelled and tasted wonderful as always and by the time I settled between her thighs my cock was throbbing hard (Mistress had been teasing it with her foot previously).

I was a little nervous that tonight might not quite live up to last night, as Mistress had a very hard orgasm last night, not unusual after a few days without. But I needn’t have worried, she seemed very satisfied indeed, which made me very happy.


Like last night, Mistress wasted little time in getting me hard, and so the teasing, slapping, sucking, biting started again. Several times I got close to the edge, but every time I was about to warn her, Mistress seemed to instinctively know when to slow down, it was uncanny…


Like last night Mistress seemed to be enjoying herself a lot teasing me, and the more she got into it the rougher she was with my cock and balls, and I absolutely fucking loved it! I was so hard by the end it was crazy, and as we kissed and she squeezed my cock and balls for what seemed like the last few times I begged to be allowed to worship her gorgeous asshole.


Mistress straddled my head, facing away and lowered her ass onto my face, giving me a perfect view of where I was so desperate to push my tongue. She grabbed my cock again and I sank my tongue into her delicious, sexy ass, it was absolute bliss! Mistress lifted off and I thanked her thinking that was my lot, but Mistress sank down one more time and I pushed my tongue even deeper into her ass as she jerked my cock again. 

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!


Neeedless to say, Mistress didn’t let me cum, and we finished the session holding each other tightly, my cock rubbing and throbbing against her thigh while I kissed her lovely breasts. It was fantastic, to say the very least and I really, really loved how much she was into teasing me, and how rough she was getting with my balls. I wouldn’t want that from the start, but the more turned on you are the better it is…. so fucking good!!!

Amazing Teasing and a Lovely Orgasm for Mistress R...

Mistress and I have had a busy weekend (as I think I mentioned) and so we’d rather fallen behind with our quest for more orgasms for Mistress R, before tonight Mistress had only had three so far this month and that really isn’t cutting the mustard!

But we made up for it tonight, Mistress had a wonderful orgasm on my tongue round about 8:30, after which she started teasing me something rotten. Right at the start Mistress asked me how many days it had been since I’d been allowed to cum and she was rather surprised when I said it had been thirty days.


It does seem to have come around quite quick, and I can tell you when I woke up this morning I could tell that it was getting up there, but I was good and I didn’t touch my cock. Mistress did more than touch it, she stroked it, bit it, sucked it, slapped it… at one point she was slapping me quickly, giving me three or four slaps to the cock and then one to the balls, several times (I really liked that) then she just slapped my balls four or five times in a row (I really liked that too!), I’d love her to get me really close and then do that over and over until I came (one way or another, ruined or not). That would be so awesome!


But no, instead, just when I was getting close-ish, Mistress decided she wanted to ride my cock! It wasn’t easy, but I managed to hold back… even as I reached up and squeezed Mistress’s gorgeous breasts through her sexy black bra. That’s control, I can tell you! But as much as I wanted to beg Mistress to take her bra off and let me see her riding me totally naked, I knew it would push me over the edge, so I bit my lip and closed my eyes instead.


Mistress was really enjoying herself riding me, and it was so hot when she bent down and kissed me as she slid up and down my aching cock. Oh it’s a tough life being a sub!  I really didn’t know how much more I was going to be able to take and I kind of thought Mistress might be thinking about letting me cum inside her, but then she lifted off and straddled my face, allowing me to lick her delicious pussy again, while my cock throbbed in mid-air.


Instead of sliding back down onto my cock, Mistress then knelt beside me and started really pumping my cock, actually this might have been when all the really good ball slapping started (it’s a little hazy), and I really thought Mistress was going to either let me cum or ruin another orgasm. But as soon as I said that I was getting close, Mistress slowed right down and just teased me with her fingertips, telling me ‘We don’t want that do we’.


Mistress allowed me a few seconds to ease back from the edge, then gave my cock and balls some very firm tugs and squeezes, I love how much more confident she is getting about slapping and squeezing my balls, it’s so fucking hot! Eventually Mistress called time and we held each other tight, kissing passionately as my poor cock throbbed against Mistress’s stomach. Then I begged to be allowed to lick Mistress’s pussy again and she lay on her back and opened her silky thighs as I slid down the bed to taste her again. Mistress was still really, really wet and she tasted absolutely gorgeous. I would have loved to have licked her to orgasm all over again…sigh. Maybe tomorrow.

Commenting on the Comments...

A couple of comments left on my blog in the last 24hrs (thank you) which I thought I would highlight and comment on myself. The first was this…

lovetosubmit9 October 2014 15:04

I can relate to a great female orgasm from my tongue. Last session before her period, I gave her a great orgasm and she has bragged about it a couple of times since then. Makes me feel so powerful when this happens! My only complaint is that she will not kiss me afterwards! I would love to rim her, but she doesn’t seem keen on that… yet.

I’m intrigued to know whether she bragged about it to you or to someone else, but either way… nice job! One great thing about chastity is that it doesn’t take long for it to click that only one of you is having orgasms and so you are both working towards a common goal…her pleasure! For the guy, at least for me and lovetosubmit, it is so spectacularly rewarding to feel your Mistress cum really hard. It is a truly wonderful feeling, better than any orgasm for me. Incidentally, Mistress has just gone upstairs to bed and when she kissed me goodnight she told me that her orgasm earlier was spectacular. That makes me feel pretty flipping great I can tell you!!! 

I just love it, but it can be difficult for a new Mistress not to feel guilty at first, because she has to get used to having sex in a whole different way than she probably has her whole life, so for those of you who persuade your wife to take the first steps you really need to keep up the reassurances while she adjusts. Make no mistake it can be a long process. 

It’s a shame she doesn’t like to kiss you after you’ve licked her pussy, I love kissing Mistress deeply as she teases my cock after making her cum, I don’t get to kiss her after rimming though…

Rimming can be tricky, I remember the first time I brought it up with Mistress R, as clear as day I remember it and the look of distaste on her face. Strangely, it was one thing that I had done with my previous (sexually ambivalent) girlfriend, so maybe the fact that I was able to tell Mistress that I already knew what it was like and that I liked doing it helped to lay the foundations….I don’t really know. 

Maybe the fact that I had done it with my previous girlfriend acted as a kind of catalyst too, after all new girlfriends/wives maybe don’t like to think that their predecessors did something ‘better’ or maybe Mistress just thought that the fact that I brought it up made her think that I must have enjoyed it and that there was no harm in trying.

To this day I don’t really know how Mistress R feels about me licking her ass, I think she kind of likes it now, but I’m not 100% sure. I hope she does. Out of session I usually have to prompt it, but I don’t know whether that’s because she’s not that bothered or whether she still can’t quite understand why I love it so much, or maybe she just likes to make me beg for it?s 

The point is lovetosubmit, don’t give up, but don’t pester. Tell her how much you would love to be allowed to lick her gorgeous ass every so often and maybe you will persuade her to try it eventually, and maybe when she does she will love it. 

As much as I love licking Mistress R’s beautiful pussy (and I really, really love it) there is something really special about being allowed to tongue her ass. It’s totally submissive, incredibly erotic, kind of naughty, and just… you can’t get any closer to someone than licking their ass can you? It’s totally awesome.

Incidentally, Mistress allowed me to briefly lick her ass tonight, but only for about 10-15 seconds. My cock was rock hard by the time she finished teasing me tonight, I can tell you!

The other comment was this one…

Someone NSFW9 October 2014 06:48

Twenty four days teasing and denial.I can’t imagine this. 7 days without sex is TOO long for me. Although, we are not in flr, and 7 days it’s a lot. I have a qestion: when i don’t cum for 3-5 days, i can’t last long. And i think nobody can. If your mistress want long sex, how you resolve the problem?

This is an issue that has caused me untold (but seemingly unnecessary) worry over the last few years, and is (I suspect) a pitfall that many chastity males fall into. In my particular case this deserves some explanation, so…

One of the things which attracted me to the chastity lifestyle was an article I read in which an older gentleman said that chastity helped him adapt to the rigours of old age, and helped him continue his physical relationship with his wife as his cock got less reliable. 

Now, a few years ago I was having some very stressful ED issues, and once you get into that it’s really hard to get out of. The stress of not knowing if you will be able to get hard or stay hard just defeats you over and over, because you can’t help thinking about it and even though there may not be a physical reason for it, the minute you start worrying about it you are toast. However, since we started full time chastity you could count on the fingers of one, maybe two hands the number of times I’ve been unable to get hard. 

Bearing that in mind, when I brought up the subject of full time chastity (which was not easy in the slightest and Mistress R was initially not a happy bunny I can assure you…) she decided to insist that if I really wanted her to be in control then she was going to make some rules of her own. Now I don’t think for a minute that Mistress thought that we would still be doing this three and half years later, she probably didn’t think I’d stick it for more than a month or two, but she made two rules which are still in force now.

1) I am not allowed to ask to be allowed to cum.

2) I am not allowed to instigate penetrative sex.

I don’t really know why she initiated rule number one, I’m guessing it was to make it easier for her to get used to the idea without having to deal with guilt from me begging to be allowed to cum. But number two, I’m sure, stemmed from the awful times we had when I couldn’t get or stay hard. I think she thought that by taking that on herself she could decide if she thought I was hard enough to have penetrative sex.

Funnily enough since I have been in chastity that hasn’t really been a problem… but what has happened in the past is that I’ve worried myself in circles about why (now that ED is not an issue anymore) Mistress doesn’t seemingly want penetrative sex as often as I thought she would. And that’s a bit of a blow to the ego for a guy… you know! 

I still sometimes worry that in the future this will come back to bite me in the ass and she will say something like ‘I went along with the whole chastity thing because it was what you wanted’ etc etc… But in all honesty, I’ve asked plenty of times if she’s happy with the way things are, whether she wants to go back to a normal vanilla sex life, I really can’t do any more. She is in control of our sex life at the end of the day, if she’s not happy with it she is the one who needs to change it, or needs to tell me that she’s not happy so that we can change it together. With my situation, I have to believe that things are the way she wants them to be and that includes penetrative sex (or the lack thereof).

Mistress does let me inside her sometimes, mostly with her on top, which is great for me because I find it quite easy not to lose control being ridden. Sometimes she does allow me on top, though not that often, and usually because she wants me to cum hard inside her. You are right, when in chastity for any length of time it is not easy to fuck hard and fast for very long, not easy at all, especially if your Mistress’s asshole is in plain view as you are sliding into her….  !

So the truth is I don’t really have an answer as to how we overcome this. Mistress seemingly much prefers oral sex, and this in itself can take between 15-30 minutes for her to cum. Fortunately I love licking her pussy, so we are both very content. I can’t deny that there are times when I really miss being the one on top, slamming my cock into her as hard and fast as I can, but on balance what I have gained far outweighs what I have lost. 

Now that I have accepted that Mistress doesn’t feel like she is missing out (on long lasting penetrative sex) as she has told me many times, it has changed my perspective a bit. Yes there is still the odd time when I wish I could pin Mistress’s legs back to her chest and fuck her hard, until I fill her full of cum… but really when you enter into a situation like this, you come to accept that you have given up that control and ability to lead and make choices. 

It’s kind of hard to explain… but as time goes on you realise how much more rewarding sex is with someone when you know that they are comfortable with everything that is happening and when it is happening. When Mistress allows me inside her then I know she really wants me to be inside her, when she allows me to cum I know she really wants me to cum and so on. 

I know most people who read my blog are already on-board with the whole chastity thing, but I really can’t emphasise enough that our sex life in the past 3.5 years has been better than at any point in our 22 year relationship.  I wouldn’t even swap it for the first flush of all night fucking, cumming three or four times and going to sleep at four in the morning. Yes that was great, but it wasn’t as good as this is now. Not really.

FEMDOM SESSION 28th September 2014

I was hoping that Mistress would want to fuck my ass today, and things looked pretty hopeful when she included the rubber butt plug in my list of things to start the session with. Alongside that particular item I was also expected to wear my ankle and wrist restraints and my Oxballs Cocksling.

Fortunately for me the only thing I had to be punished for this time was a couple of towel infractions, so I got off with a fairly light whipping and no paddling(thankfully!). After this Mistress had me get her glass dildo nice and wet for her and then she stood on the bed and told me to watch as she rubbed the glass dildo against her gorgeous pussy.

Soon I was worshipping Mistress’s lovely feet while she put her glass dildo to good use, of course I was told to keep my eyes down and to concentrate on the job at hand, which I did. By this time the butt plug was very comfortable and it wasn’t too much longer before I’d forgotten about it altogether. Strange since it’s quite not exactly tiny!

When I had worshipped Mistress’s pretty feet to her satisfaction she had me clean off her dildo with my mouth and then ordered me on to the bed. She tied me down and stood over me, exposing her gorgeous pussy to me before sinking down on to my face for the first time.

The next part of the session was wonderful, as Mistress stroked, slapped and whipped my cock and balls, sat on my face several times, teased me with her amazing ass, sticking it right in my face so I could breathe in her scent but not lick it, lubed up my cock and rode me conventionally while allowing me to suck on her awesome breasts (she was wearing the strappy bra top again) and reverse cowgirl style while leaning forward so I could watch my cock disappearing into her pussy while also staring at her tantalizing asshole (to be honest it’s probably not a bad thing that she didn’t do that for too long, because it could well have been my undoing!).

After lots more teasing and stroking, Mistress blindfolded me and clipped a couple of pegs on my nipples before leaving me to stew for a little while. When she came back she removed the blindfold and whipped the pegs off, leaving me to take in the stunning sight of my gorgeous Mistress wearing her RodeOh strap-on pants.

Mistress untied me and told me to remove my cocksling, then she told me to remove my butt plug and turn over. It wasn’t hard to guess what was coming next, especially when Mistress sprayed lube between my cheeks and climbed onto the bed behind me. It felt great to be fucked by my Mistress again, I wanted it badly and even though it was very intense (I was grateful that I had been wearing the butt plug for a good half hour prior) while it was happening, I really loved the submissive feelings it provokes in me and I love the feeling afterwards of having been fucked by my Mistress’s cock.

After whipping off the condom, Mistress had me turn over on my back again and kneeled over my head, before pushing the rubber cock into my mouth and fucking my face for a short while.
Then it was Mistress’s turn and she had me go down on her, which was totally heavenly. Mistress was extremely wet by this time, I just love how wet she gets in our sessions, since it shows me just how much she loves doing these things to me. By the time she had cum hard she was even wetter still and as she stood on the bed in front of me her juices were literally running down her legs to her calves.

Mistress had me lick up every drop of her pussy juice, first from her silky smooth legs and gorgeous ass, then from the PVC sheet, and it was totally delicious (of course!).

Finally Mistress ordered me onto my back once again before straddling me and told me I would be allowed to lick her ass if I begged nice enough. I was permitted to lick her gorgeous ass twice while she stroked my cock hard and fast, before she called a halt to the session.

During the session Mistress had teased me about letting me cum on her feet and having me lick them clean, I so want to do that again, but I never really thought she would let me cum today, since I’ve already cum three times this month. Still I was hopeful and there was always the chance that she might let me ruin on her feet (though I haven’t had a ruined orgasm since May so that seemed unlikely somehow).

Mistress was amazing today, she looked so sexy in her strappy leather bra and I loved the way she smiled at me as she sank down on my cock. Most of all I loved how hard she came and I really loved licking the pussy juice off her wonderful legs (and licking her ass of course, that goes without saying).

Mistress and I will be celebrating our 21st Wedding Anniversary in a few days, so it was especially rewarding that our session went so well. If we have another 21 years of Femdom and chastity to look forward to I think I will be a very happy bunny indeed!

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In other news, I haven’t mentioned this recently but I have been back on the diet and over the last five weeks I have lost eleven pounds, which is pretty good. I still have another ten pounds to get back to where I was earlier in the year (which is immensely frustrating of course) but hopefully I will get there way before Christmas. I certainly feel like I have clicked into the regime of diet and exercise again (without paying someone else £5 a week for the privilege too!).

Also, I have an idea for a Femdom story, the only trouble is finding the time to write the damn thing!

It's a Cum Bonanza!

Some of you may have noticed that I’ve been allowed to cum three times in the last couple of weeks, which was unexpected to say the least (given that I haven’t cum three times in a month since Dec 2012, never mind in a fortnight!). I don’t know what brought that about exactly, I guess Mistress decided that after my 48 day record she wanted me to cum a few times...

You would think that would leave me keen to get back on the chastity wagon, but surprisingly I have found lately that I am surprisingly desperate to be allowed to cum. Indeed tonight the last thing I was hoping for was denial, but denied I was. Mistress stroked me hard and fast several times and gave my cock and balls a good slapping into the bargain, and my balls some good tugging too (I love how Mistress has taken to playing with my balls of late, sooooo hot!). When she called a halt my cock felt like it was ready to burst and it took a good couple of minutes for the feeling to genuinely subside.

On Sunday Mistress allowed me to penetrate her and cum inside her while she lay on her side, this is a torturous position for me because while I obviously want to make it last, Mistress ordered me to spread her cheeks and look at her ass while I was fucking her and that is a real cum trigger for me. Actually it was a rather torturous position for another reason, since I got mild cramp almost as soon as I knelt behind her, right through until after I came.

After I came Mistress ordered me onto my back and straddled my face so I could lick her pussy clean. I must have cum pretty deep because there didn’t seem to be that much at all, but I still enjoyed licking her gorgeous pussy all the same.

I have no idea when I will get to cum again, I’m assuming it won’t be this month, but it might still be. Perhaps I’m at the start of another long stretch of denial and don’t even know it yet, if I am then given how extraordinarily desperate I am to cum after three whole days… then it’s going to be an intense and interesting time ahead!

Good to see that Mistress Marie is perking up, having already had her slave David lick her to orgasm. Hopefully she’ll be back to full strength soon and posting to her blog again.

I’ve been looking (again) at alternative hosts for my blog, because Google is annoying me with it’s insistence on syncing everything. When you set up a blog like this you don’t necessarily want people to be able to identify you and so you set up an email address just for that purpose and of course Google wants to link it to your normal Gmail account.

It might just be easier to change my normal Gmail account to Hotmail or something though because every blog host I’ve looked at states that they won’t accept ‘pornographic’ material, and even though WordPress does have some blogs like that, if you go there then you are constantly under threat of being deleted. Plus there’s the whole hassle of moving it and no doubt all the buttons/links will be gone and it would be a nightmare to piece it all back together somewhere else.

Besides, I would lose my 2 million hits, which would be annoying.