Further still...

I do of course realise that some of you get off on the idea of not being a 'real' man, that you fantasize about your wife being roughly fucked to exhaustion in every hole by a 'real' man (possibly while you handwash her panties or something), and if that is what you truly desire then that is all well and good, I am not here to judge or criticise. Similarly if your thing is dressing up as a woman and being used as a slut (hello to my newest follower 'Slutsuzie') then the new poll is perhaps something of a moot point! I also realise that in the caption which started this whole topic, the term 'real man' was used in a very particular sense to mean a certain type of man (i.e., what might otherwise be termed a 'stud').

This does tie in rather neatly (well, kind of) with a post that I read the other day (which I have been meaning to comment on) on the site AtAllTimes, where our hero was recounting his relish at being told to kneel on the floor in front of his Mistress and being ordered to masturbate for her, while she placed her panties over his head and tormented his nipples with her fingernails. This was tempered somewhat by his understandable feelings of concern about what exactly she thought of him at this time. Did she think he was pathetic, jerking himself off for her with her panties covering his nose, or did she in fact understand his absolute pleasure at being controlled like this and realise that here was a man who probably loved her more than any other man in the world ever could?
It was quite gratifying then to read some of the comments underneath the post which sought to reassure him, particularly from a reader called 'LadyGrey' who commented:

"Next, she wraps your head in her panties. Does this mean she thinks less of you as a man and husband? Of course not. It means she's enjoying having you in a submissive position. Begging, your head wrapped in her bodily essence, on your knees before her, about to service her ....good Lord, man, what else do you need to convince yourself that she's getting off on this? There's nothing for you to be ashamed of. She's not ashamed of you. She's enjoying it!"