Sunday, 4 December 2011
Ooooooh...
Mistress R has just been double checking with me how long my longest period of chastity was, and she's not best pleased that if she allows me to cum on Sunday (our next Femdom session of course) it will only equal it. From what she's just said to me in the kitchen she might even be thinking of making me wait until Christmas Eve, which will be..... errr, 41 days! Quite a jump from 28, but if that's what Mistress R wants them I'm up for that.
Oh yeah...
Re the poll, I know it says shaved, but if you are waxed I should count that as the same thing. There's a lot of shaved guys, but then I guess that kind of goes hand in hand with the chastity belt wearing, doesn't it.
Anyone been waxed? Fuck that, that looks like it would hurt!
Anyone been waxed? Fuck that, that looks like it would hurt!
Keep doing your thing...
This morning I left a rather long comment on 'Q&k's' blog which was in response to a comment made by someone who said they were not going to look at 'IHonorHer' anymore because they just felt sorry for 'k' and felt that he was being abused by 'Q'. Since not all of you probably visit 'IHonorHer' just as not all their visitors come here, I thought I would repost my response here, perhaps it might prompt some discussion? You might like to visit 'IHonorHer' to read the original post and the comment to which I was responding, you can do that by clicking here.
I find this post (Anon) a little odd, not least because the love you have for each other seems pretty obvious. I don't always 'get' everything that goes on between you, like the spanking for example, but it still seems to me that you genuinely love each other and what appears (as much as I can tell) as a solid marriage.
If I've learned anything over the years it's that you can't judge someone else's relationship by your own standards and ideals.
The other thing I would say is that because Q posts on my blog I have picked up on some of the things she has said which colour my view of things, perhaps Anon hasn't seen those comments, perhaps they don't visit my blog (why not?????). Perhaps if Q posted her side on your blog more people would be more informed and understand a little better?
I think half the thing with alternative relationships is the breaking of barriers and allowing us to explore our deeper, darker fantasies with each other (or with others), that could be giving control of orgasms or letting someone piss on you... Mistress R commented this morning that when she responded to Miss Christina's questions the other day, she found her answers a bit underwhelming, she just can't find the words to explain how it feels to bring someone close to orgasm and to deny it, how unbelievably intense it is and how close it makes you feel. I imagine when you were spooning Q with your cock hard in your chastity device you would have been experiencing something few of us would dare to, and if it makes you and Q happy then, why the hell not. You only get one life and if you can find someone on your wavelength to share it with then you are a lucky, lucky person.
Sure your marriage could break up, so could anyone's, and if it does people will be like, well what did you expect he was a cuck, it was bound to happen. But that might not be the reason at all, there could be a million other reasons, but people will always focus on something they don't understand, instead of something else like one of you was useless with money or one of you was a miserable git or something like that...
Anyway, point is, the more I think about it the more I think this persons comment was mildly ridiculous. Keep doing your thing and fuck what anyone else thinks!
I find this post (Anon) a little odd, not least because the love you have for each other seems pretty obvious. I don't always 'get' everything that goes on between you, like the spanking for example, but it still seems to me that you genuinely love each other and what appears (as much as I can tell) as a solid marriage.
If I've learned anything over the years it's that you can't judge someone else's relationship by your own standards and ideals.
The other thing I would say is that because Q posts on my blog I have picked up on some of the things she has said which colour my view of things, perhaps Anon hasn't seen those comments, perhaps they don't visit my blog (why not?????). Perhaps if Q posted her side on your blog more people would be more informed and understand a little better?
I think half the thing with alternative relationships is the breaking of barriers and allowing us to explore our deeper, darker fantasies with each other (or with others), that could be giving control of orgasms or letting someone piss on you... Mistress R commented this morning that when she responded to Miss Christina's questions the other day, she found her answers a bit underwhelming, she just can't find the words to explain how it feels to bring someone close to orgasm and to deny it, how unbelievably intense it is and how close it makes you feel. I imagine when you were spooning Q with your cock hard in your chastity device you would have been experiencing something few of us would dare to, and if it makes you and Q happy then, why the hell not. You only get one life and if you can find someone on your wavelength to share it with then you are a lucky, lucky person.
Sure your marriage could break up, so could anyone's, and if it does people will be like, well what did you expect he was a cuck, it was bound to happen. But that might not be the reason at all, there could be a million other reasons, but people will always focus on something they don't understand, instead of something else like one of you was useless with money or one of you was a miserable git or something like that...
Anyway, point is, the more I think about it the more I think this persons comment was mildly ridiculous. Keep doing your thing and fuck what anyone else thinks!
New poll...
I must admit, I do look the look of a nice shaved pussy. Sadly Mistress R is not keen (and I can't say I blame her really, I certain don't fancy taking the Gillette Mach 3 Turbo to my 'rod of iron' and surrounding hillocks either). So this weeks poll is all about 'personal grooming'... are you shaved, trimmed or natural? Simple. One poll for guys and one for gals, I've started the ball rolling with Mistress R and I's votes (both very trimmed as it happens), polls are in the usual place in the right hand sidebar.
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Mistress R reckoned we'd done this before, but I just checked and we haven't. What we did do was a poll asking guys whether they preferred their partners trimmed, shaved or natural. And if you want to know the results of that poll you can find it on my polls tab.
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Mistress R reckoned we'd done this before, but I just checked and we haven't. What we did do was a poll asking guys whether they preferred their partners trimmed, shaved or natural. And if you want to know the results of that poll you can find it on my polls tab.
Results of the Chastity Device poll...
Well there were 207 votes in the chastity device poll and only 19 of you said you don't own a chastity device, which means that 91% of the people who voted do own a chastity device of some kind. Because some of you own more than one device it's a little hard to glean too much information from the poll, except that as expected there are more plastic devices (119) than steel (83) owned by the voters and a surprising number (27) of silicone models about. I must admit the device that has always appealed to me the most is the birdlock, simply because it is soft and pliable.
On the subject of wear, 23% of the people who own chastity devices are locked in them 24/7, 25% are locked up regularly, 19% wear them fairly often, 30% wear them rarely, and just 3% (like me) own a chastity device but never wear it.
Finally, 6% of you who voted do not practice chastity of any sort, and 18% of you are on the honour system (again, like me).
On the subject of wear, 23% of the people who own chastity devices are locked in them 24/7, 25% are locked up regularly, 19% wear them fairly often, 30% wear them rarely, and just 3% (like me) own a chastity device but never wear it.
Finally, 6% of you who voted do not practice chastity of any sort, and 18% of you are on the honour system (again, like me).
Results of the Ladies poll....
So, in all there were 34 votes cast in the poll asking if the ladies who read the blog would be willing to give up control of their partner's orgasms and revert to the way things used to be before they took control, I was reasonably certain that there would be a certain reluctance, but I didn't really expect the votes to fall quite the way they did.
A whopping 48% of the votes cast fell into the 'Forget it!' category, and an overwhelming 80% were in the 'Positively Unwilling' and upwards categories. Nobody was 'Very willing', only 5% declared themselves 'Willing' and a meagre 15% declared themselves 'Not Very Willing'.
So overall, these results and Mistress R's recent comments would seem to suggest that my fears about Mistress R wanting to go back to 'normal' may seem somewhat unfounded, which is absolutely fantastic as far as I'm concerned, because I am absolutely loving my new life. But it does suggest that that old maxim 'Be Careful What You Wish For' may not be without basis in reality!
A whopping 48% of the votes cast fell into the 'Forget it!' category, and an overwhelming 80% were in the 'Positively Unwilling' and upwards categories. Nobody was 'Very willing', only 5% declared themselves 'Willing' and a meagre 15% declared themselves 'Not Very Willing'.
So overall, these results and Mistress R's recent comments would seem to suggest that my fears about Mistress R wanting to go back to 'normal' may seem somewhat unfounded, which is absolutely fantastic as far as I'm concerned, because I am absolutely loving my new life. But it does suggest that that old maxim 'Be Careful What You Wish For' may not be without basis in reality!
Great post this morning...
Great post over at 'Q' and 'k's' blog (here), 'k's' posts are always really worth reading and this one is no exception (especially if you are into cuckolding).
For me I have to say I'm very happy for them, but reading something like that that I know is 100% genuine and real, just reinforces my own feelings about being cuckolded. And I think it's a testament to 'k's' writing that he gave such an impression of his feelings throughout that it made me feel almost slightly uncomfortable, because I know that I could never cope with it.
Time and again this cuckolding thing fucks with my head, I love the fantasy of a powerful, dominant woman who takes what she wants (and makes me clean her up afterwards) but in real life for me it would be a total and utter disaster. It's kinda fucked up that I would much sooner she made me suck a real cock than she cuckolded me... is that weird (hahaha). Which reminds me, no one's commented on the header for the new caption blog (here), I didn't know if some people would think it was a bit much, but I figured, if this is too much then you're in the wrong place!
For me I have to say I'm very happy for them, but reading something like that that I know is 100% genuine and real, just reinforces my own feelings about being cuckolded. And I think it's a testament to 'k's' writing that he gave such an impression of his feelings throughout that it made me feel almost slightly uncomfortable, because I know that I could never cope with it.
Time and again this cuckolding thing fucks with my head, I love the fantasy of a powerful, dominant woman who takes what she wants (and makes me clean her up afterwards) but in real life for me it would be a total and utter disaster. It's kinda fucked up that I would much sooner she made me suck a real cock than she cuckolded me... is that weird (hahaha). Which reminds me, no one's commented on the header for the new caption blog (here), I didn't know if some people would think it was a bit much, but I figured, if this is too much then you're in the wrong place!
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